Is he truly single?

[Anonymous]

I’m seeing this guy that says that he’s single, but he’s also been “getting to know” another woman for almost two years now. They are always together, they frequently go on trips together (a few of them have been international), they are always each other’s plus one, and she’s met his closest friends and some of his family members.

However, he swears up and down that he is single. What do I make of this?

[ohsheeT]

Ur being used. And he will. keep using you utill you walk away. The lady he is always with is his girl friend. You can think what ever you want if you believe hime well ok but in 10 years from now you can ask this same question every thing will remain the same except he will see you less and all thevtime that passes by you will never get it back

[Avicenna]

Of course not. Lots of people have these sorts of BS arrangements these days.

[Asker]

So, this is an open relationship?

[Avicenna]

Almost certainly not. Does she know you?

[alli-112]

Yeah, he might be officially single, but he's functionally in a relationship. If that's not cool with you, I wouldn't mess with it.

[DannyUk2017]

He is like a and she is like a -... so i'm sure you're seeing a narcissist a "loverboy" that he likes the way "world spins just around him"...🤷‍♂️

[Alex-Snow]

He does not sound single to me. He is obviously having sex with her... how is your sex life with him? I would dump him.

[RHK36]

You sound naive