He works at ER as surgeon on training. He says he work +90 hours a week, if he's not at hospital he's sleeping. He can meet me once or twice a month.
I asked him a bunch of times he kept saying he's single, he has no time to date outside of work, "he feels like" I don't believe him (because I don't lol)
Should I believe him he's single?
You must not know much about the medical field especially working in a hospital. Surgeons work long hours.
My obgyn worked anywhere from 10 to 15 hours per shift 6 days a week. That's over 70 hours per week he was working. A surgeon can definitely work 90 hours a week. Remember some surgeries can take over 8 hours to perform. Doctors also have to write up medical reports, do consultations. When working in the medical field it can be difficult for them to be in a relationship especially if they are a doctor working in a hospital
Don't date people in the medical field. Coming from someone who's currently training to be in one and have parents who work long hours even on weekends except for Sundays. ER surgeons have super hectic jobs. My mom told me never to go into ER, gynecology or neurology. They have a tight schedule.
Surgeon on training those three words don't even go together you can always call the hospital to find out if he's there what he does there when you call the ER there will be a desk there they can answer those questions surgeon and training that's like pigs in space you can only see you a couple times a month there's just way too many red flags there for me
He could be single, however, I am with @MzAsh on this one. Why would you get involved with someone that has little to no time for you?
I understand he may be a great guy, but I think you may regret being with someone that has an extremely limited number of hours in a week for you. It's really easy to lose any kind of connection you may have week to week.
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I think he's telling the truth, and I also think if you've "asked him a bunch of times" you should date somebody else. I'd have lost interest in you already since I hate repeating myself.
yes. What could be his motivation to lie? To get in soon as possible into your panties? Why you don't play with him a while until you will find out if he is honest? Isn't giving him no chance to prove his credibility a little bit too harsh?
Yea surgeons sometimes stay up days to complete surgeries and there's actually pictures of them sleeping right after the procedure
Im sure he at least feels like he’s single with that schedule. Ick. Why would you sign up to be his hobby like that? Get a man who actually has time for you.
I think you just wanna control him and make him obsessed with you. And once you reach that, you’ll lose your interest.
Basic daddy issues.
They work them very hard. Wrongly I think cause who wants a tired surgeon?
I think you can be quite confident he doesn't have time to run you and one or two side chicks.
If someone doesn’t have the time to be speaking to you every single day, they are too busy for a relationship. He should be off the table right away.
Believe him.
Training and residency for surgeons takes obscenely long hours.
Why? If he says he is single i don't see any reason why he wouldn't be single.
What is wrong with you? if he told you he's single then why would you think he's lying? Are you just intimidated by him being more successful than you?
Single or not, he's too busy to make you a priority. Probably best to find someone else.
What Surgeon you know that doesn't have a busy schedule, sounds like your not a good fit for his life
Just swarm him with questions if you are interested in him. If he is too avoidance, avoid him too.
Have you met his friends or family or he just calls you up for booty calls? It sounds like you are not dating but just the booty call at best.
90h is too much
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