If he talks to me every single day for a year and “still wants to see where things go” does it mean he is sexually active with other girls?

[Anonymous]

We don’t have a defined relationship, even though I asked him to define it because it’s been a year. I asked him if he could define if we are just friends friends with benefits or what is it So I don’t take things the wrong way or expect anything more. We’ve hung out and Of course got sexual. But we did go out to eat and have dinner and stuff like that. He lives about 100 miles away and I’ve seen him a couple times within a year. For those couple times I’ve stayed for a whole weekend. he said he still wants to see where things go And he doesn’t know how the “future” Will be like between us. Does this mean he is dating other girls even though he says he’s not? He told me he would let me know if he met someone And that he isn’t looking for anyone else and I’m the only one he’s into right now. Does that necessarily mean he’s keeping his options open? But if he’s not getting it from me then who else is he getting it from?

[DannyUk2017]

Looks like you're "already" his side chick... Unless you two having videochat, when not together, how can you tell if he's having someone or not? when with you and phone rings is on silent?, face down?, does he go out/bathroom to talk?, do you catch him "finishing texting"? Does he pay attention to what You say, or he's every 2 minutes with his hand on the phone? if 80% of these questions are correct, then i'm affraid you're right, he might have someone aside, and to not lose you he keeps "feeding you crumbs or hope"...🤷‍♂️

[Alex-Snow]

A LDR seems tough. Maybe he is having sex with someone else because it is too infrequent with you? How is the sex with him? Any chance of one of you moving closer to the other because I do not see things changing.

[alli-112]

Definitely possible. Regardless, figure out what you want and if he isn't going to give it to you move on. If you want to be exclusive, tell him. If you don't care, then it's not a problem. If you want to start a relationship, figure out if he'll even go there with you, and if not, leave and find someone else who will.

[EmmaMary]

The question remains as to whether he's given you a damn good fucking yet... Simples

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[slatyb]

Talks? Are you dating? A year is a long time. What do you want? Don't settle for less.

[Asker]

Not dating I’ve seen him a couple times for a weekends I’ve stayed at his place all the time I’ve met his roommates but I don’t know. He can’t even say if we’re just friends or not, but I just realized and someone told me if they can’t define it technically, it’s nothing. But I don’t know why he still messages me. If he’s the one that told me he’s not really into me anymore and that he met someone else but yet he still cares about me. I just didn’t reply because I figure he said his peace and he doesn’t need anything else from me.

[slatyb]

He's a waste of your precious time. Block him and move on.

[j0han]

Given all the things you have shared, I must say you’re most likely his side chick. Men don’t have commitment issues with the one they see a future with but will not commit to a fuck buddy.

[Asker]

Side chick meaning he’s already with someone possibly

[j0han]

Well, I don’t know if he is with someone or not but I can say this that you’re definitely not the only one he is talking to

[Asker]

Every time I try to distance myself, he’s always asking if I’m OK and that he’s worried about me blah blah blah.

[j0han]

Clearly, he wants more action with you. He is making sure the options and your legs are open for him simultaneously.

Also, how can I add bio in my profile? There’s no option for that.

[jahaims]

It means he is too immature for a healthy relationship and strings people along for validation

[Blackpage34]

She may have another girlfriend

[Pterodon]

Probably.