Why do Indian boys want a very independent career woman with lots of money? Who are they to ask for no feminists when they PREFER them?

[Babygirl_S]

Are they princesses? What is a princess supposed to do?
I know a General practitioner got overlooked because she wasn’t a Gynaecologist

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Also, most specialists write this in their matrimonial ads:
I need a girl who is a judge/a bureaucrat/a high paid specialist like Gynaecologist or Surgeon etc. All the jobs that can make it so hard to give time to family. Why don’t they make their own money instead of wanting a woman to do that?

[YourFutureEx]

As an Indian, I do not (specifically) want a woman with lots of money or someone in a high position. All I want from her is to work. Whatever she can, she should, because what else would she do in her life? Stay on bed and watch Netflix all day long?

"An empty mind is a devil's workshop" is a wise proverb. When she has nothing to do, she will get a lot of impulsive thoughts that can wreck the house but if she's busy with work, she will only think about progress.

In addition to that, she will earn money. I don't want a single penny out of her purse. She's free to spend all her money on herself... And that will make her feel liberated and prosperous.

The people with extremely high demands and standards that you may have encountered must be so wealthy and belong to a society where titles mean so much for their reputation. You can look elsewhere and you will find lots of men that suit your standards and even the men that don't even want their women to work.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes! I definitely don’t want to work as long as my kids are not at least five years old

[Babygirl_S]

But a homemaker can have so much to do in a day. A woman doesn’t have to have a job to be busy. An average house is big enough to clean, elaborate meals take enough time, laundry, reading books etc. can easily keep a woman preoccupied. The ones I talk to definitely belong to that section of the society that values career achievements above anything else. This is the first thing they ask me” what’s your job? how much do you earn?”

[YourFutureEx]

Those men just want a trophy wife that can do everything, that they can show off to the world.

Personally, I want my wife to do something because there's nothing to do in my house. I have dishwasher, vaccum robot, washing machine and what not? And I make 2/3 of my meals myself. So, that's why I believe it's a fair ask from me.

[DannyUk2017]

Because they just want "documents" and then Each to themselves...

[slatyb]

They want a woman who will work and do all the housework too.

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Erm.. We don't?

[es20490446e]

They don't.