What to do when you fancy the same guy as your sis?

[Anonymous]

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10 mo

Actually I don't know if she's really into him or what their status is but I just have the impression there might be more going on because they joke around a lot in a flirty way on social media and I know she stayed a few times at his place but maybe they're just regular friends and I'm overthinking it.
Of course I tried to ask her about it but she didn't give a clear answer

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10 mo

And I also don't know if he's actually interested in me or just playing around. We chat a lot every day and sometimes hang out together but haven't been on any proper dates yet. Recently we had sex for the first time which probably was a mistake but can't change it anymore

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10 mo

I asked again and turned out that they have only been friends with benefits until recently no feelings involved

[Genie23]

I wouldn't hurt my sister over a guy. I would make sure to stay away from him so she could bond with him. There are many great guys out there. Why make things complicated between me and her? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Genie23]

The guy sounds like a player. I think you both should just move on. He's not worth it.

[Asker]

Ok thanks will think about it

[Genie23]

You're welcome

[DishLady]

You should both drop the guy, especially if he is playing into it.

[DannyUk2017]

Stay away, as it can backfire on you... and not just from him, but from Your Sister also...

[Wise4myage]

She must like completion, talk to her again about this..

[Asker]

Completion?

[Wise4myage]

Sorry, I meant to say competition.

[Asker]

Ok... Asked her already and she was avoiding giving a clear answer don't want you bring it up again and have an argument

[Wise4myage]

Mention you are having sexual relations and see how she responds.

[Asker]

That's like dropping a bomb but ok will think about it

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, but it might work.

[Anonymous]

fight to the death.

just kidding. communicate.

[Anonymous]

He’s not worth it if he’s playing 2 sisters

[MasterKS]

I recently had a threesome with two sisters.

[TadBehaya]

May the best woman win lol

[NoDecision]

Flip a coin to see who gets him?

[DryGermanGuy]

"Coin flip is sacred!"
- Jesse Pinkman, Breaking Bad

[jahaims]

4 billion males exist. Both of you can move on

[Anonymous]

Don't.

[sarah549]

Both of you move on