What does it mean if I talked to my online boyfriend for hours on our first call and he said I seem too shy to have intimats?

[Jeitbf]

What do I do if my online boyfriend wants to visit me and wants me in the hotel with him?

[Zack-Bann]

Why do you think getting intimate over text with an autistic guy is a good idea?


You never met him


He can’t be your “boyfriend” online or not


Pick a safe and neutral place to have a meeting and decide then if you wanna hook up or not
(Shave your legs just in case I would say)

[Avicenna]

Sounds like manipulation to me

[Jeitbf]

He has autism so I don't know if he can manipulate very well. What do you think I should do or say?

Also why are so many answers so angry 🤣

[Avicenna]

Well, do you want to be intimate with him?

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake... Try Growing Up and acting your age. smh

[BarryLiverstone]

Can you let us know what is an online boyfriend? How long have you known him

[Jeitbf]

A few days. He’s a guy I haven’t met yet thats all and we think we are soulmates.

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s way too soon to be talking about visits and hotel rooms. If he suggests that just let him know those are good to dream about in the future but remind him to live in reality

[BarryLiverstone]

You are 34, how old is he?

[Jeitbf]

He’s same age… he is even talking about I should fly to his state and stay with him or even move in. He has autism so maybe he doesn’t mean harm by it. He also is very inexperienced. So maybe he doesn’t realize if you’re in a room at night with someone you will probably end up having sex even if one person isn't ready. Just human nature.

[BarryLiverstone]

Best to remind him it takes months to get to know someone. See if he can invest time in being consistent with you. He has autism so he’s aware

[Arcadian222]

You decide pace. Dont give too much

[Jeitbf]

Thank you. Do you think he will still love/like me if I don’t go to a hotel right away with him? I’m surprised he thinks I’d want to do that with someone I only just met.

[Arcadian222]

You dont enough about him. This seems like its to easy for him to take you to bed. I dont think he would like you saying no

[RHK36]

You sound naive. He wants sex.

[Anonymous]

What the f**k is an online boyfriend?

[Zack-Bann]

This ☝️