Is it a good sign if a guy texts non-stop after the first date?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We did chat before, but not that much. Now he’s traveling for work till next week and is texting me whole day, despite being on multiple business meetings.

Looking forward to the second date.

[Screenwriter]

I don't know if I'd think non-stop texting was a good sign. Maybe he's an excitable boy. Sounds like you need to get to know him better to find out if this IS a good sign.

I'd go more for reasonable texting. A hello during the day, a chat during the evening. The non-stop worries me a bit. Reminds me of "Love bombing".

If you find it's too much, you might ask him to dial it back, you'll see him soon enough and you're looking forward to dating again. Otherwise, if the bombing works for you, enjoy it while it lasts, as no one can up that level of texting for long! Good luck.

[Abbycado]

Yes, it’s a sign he is clearly excited about how the first date went and wants more contact.

[AviatorTom]

It's a good sign that he's texting, letting you know he enjoyed the date. Non-stop texting might indicate a bit of over-eagerness though. Enjoy the second date and see where things go. Best wishes

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Non stop not totally nonstop, he’s a busy man. I mean wherever he gets time throughout the day he’s been texting

[Finchie40]

Yes that’s a good sign, it means he really enjoyed spending time with you and wants it to continue, is this the first guy or the second guy you went on a date with

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Both

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

But the question was about the first

[Finchie40]

I use to date multiple girls’ at the same time , and even though I enjoyed spending time with each of them , it got to the point that I had to make a decision sooner than later , because the longer you spend time with someone , the more they are going to feel closer to you and they will assume it’s more than just dating , and that’s when it gets hard because you donMt want to hurt anyone’s feelings So it’s best to not string them along especially if you know which one you like better , which you said the first guy, so you are best to not go on a second date with the second guy

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What if he doesn’t like me that much? He’s busy and has been answering my texts lately today. I guess I should learn to worry less about that and be less clingy.

[Finchie40]

Well if he is bossy to you , do you want to be with someone like that?

[MrChinaski]

He's clearly interested.

If your date went 9-10/10 and you connected then maybe it's a good sign.

If it went like 7-8/10 then it's a sign he lacks impulse control and emotional intelligence. I hope it wouldn't be terminal. Clearly it's a quirk.

If it went 0-6 then you have problem.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think it was 9.

[Med_guy1978]

He's definitely into you, doesn't play it cool or any games so he's probably very sincere and open. He should know this could put you off but if it doesn't and you're okay with it then take it as a good sign. Can be a bit too much texting all day but if it works for you then it's better than he not texting at all.

[Cyfris]

It is a good sign. I wouldn't run out and buy a wedding dress yet but I would say heading more in that direction than another.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am scared about him. He’s too good too be true…

[Cyfris]

Then he might be.. Usually your instincts are tuned to pick up what is too much or too high or too dangerous. Use it is caution and proceed carefully. That doesn't mean not to proceed don't get it twisted but keep an eye for the signs of the trap about to spring.

[LC75LC71]

Usually not. Granted your next "victim" is conveniently on business trips..

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Ahahah “victim”, why?

[LC75LC71]

Gee I dunno. Maybe it's in the name..

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes that's a good sign you must've left a really good impression. No hurry up and set up a second date😉

[Amur8711]

Not a bad sign. He just is more into texting than talking.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Well if that's how you think of him clearly he has a better opinion of you. Should probably dump him before you break his heart any more since you don't like him.

[bowenw]

I think it’s a good sign and better than not hearing from him.

[LiamS95]

Sounds good to me as long as he's not over doing it and interupts your day.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Not really

[LiamS95]

Wdll then it definetly means he's thinking about you.

[Jeff51]

I would text someone but not the whole day.

[Anonymous]

Maybe, depends on the guy, and details of your date.

[Graverave]

Sounds like you know the answer and you’re seeking validation rather than confirmation

[WhitneySnow]

That’s a great sign! Which guy is this?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Both of them. This question is about German. But recently Russian has been more active… German has slowed down a little.

[WhitneySnow]

Interesting! Good luck choosing between them. I think they both really like you.

[slatyb]

No, that's a sign he has nothing to do.

[exitseven]

He sounds needy to me.

[fish5505_87]

Is this the Russian guy?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Russian has been texting me too, but this question was about the German, the one I like the most.

[fish5505_87]

Got it, sometimes it's just excitement, meeting someone new, it's like you want to talk the whole them. Most of us, hold back the urge.

[fish5505_87]

sorry I have a new keyboard, talk the whole day with them.

[Anonymous]

No, it is annoying.

[Staximus]

Usually

[msc545]

It seems obsessive and it's a bad sign.

[Zionne]

it's really not

[Anonymous]

No. It is not.

[Anonymous]

Red flag