Why would a guy text less often after the first date?

Question

we went on our first date and the date went ok I feel that we clicked. He initiated a text a day later though. But I feel that he would text less after our first date why would that be.

Answer 1

dedguy

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Because woman immediatly think men are clingy and get all wiered about it. Men have to make it look like they aren't interested so they can get the woman to wonder why and maybe probe a little into trying to get to know them. It's a retarded game that we all know and still play for some behind the curve of evolution reason? You tell us?

Answer 2

jamesma87 | 156 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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If a guy is still texting you then he's interested. There's no point in texting a girl if a man is uninterested as it is just wasting time.

It just sounds like he ran out of things to say. Most guys are pretty terrible at holding conversations with women from what I've seen or maybe he just got busier.

Answer 3

BeautifulPromisesx

Yoda

He's not interested

Answer 4

Mysterio421 | 297 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Because of the mind games both genders play. In his perspective, if he texts immediately, he will be seen as desperate and typically the girl doesn't reply or loses attraction for the guy.

Answer 5

Pyrofox | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Maybe was too focused on recalling all that happened lol. And daydreaming about the date or just was thinking deep thoughts. Overall I think it was just to contemplate what just happened.

Answer 6

clampfan101 | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Because he's stupid. 😕
I just don't understand these kind of guys. I'd love texting my girlfriend all and every day and night every when we weren't side by side! 😊

Answer 7

martyfellow | 2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

If your date went well, he learned a lot about you , so he doesn't have as many questions.. and he's somewhat secure about how you feel about him. A lot of texting is to test your reactions to him...

danisaurus

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You just helped me out a ton. I'm in a relationship where he's not texting me as much or being as sweet on text after we made things official. I keep thinking maybe he's not as in to me anymore or what... definitely mess with my head
martyfellow

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@danisaurus He's more comfortable wth you and doesn't need constant reinforcement from you.. I would say, a positive thing, no?
danisaurus

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If that's the case then yes absolutely! I'll take that, I feel relieved

Answer 8

danisaurus

You just helped me out a ton. I'm in a relationship where he's not texting me as much or being as sweet on text after we made things official. I keep thinking maybe he's not as in to me anymore or what... definitely mess with my head

Answer 9

martyfellow

@danisaurus He's more comfortable wth you and doesn't need constant reinforcement from you.. I would say, a positive thing, no?

Answer 10

danisaurus

If that's the case then yes absolutely! I'll take that, I feel relieved

Answer 11

Anonymous

When I text women a lot, they stop replying after a while and start ghosting. So, I try not to text women too much. That's been my experience. I only text to get a date set up.

Answer 12

Usersame | 141 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Games. Stop the circle, please... For the sake of both sexes.

Answer 13

TonnyStryder | 127 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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He doesn't want to come off as too eager, guys are afraid of being seen as too eager.

Answer 14

zagor | 5.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Texting gets boring after a while. Better to talk in person.

Answer 15

Djaaaaay

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What are you calling a date?

Answer 16

Anonymous

Because he lost interest.

Answer 17

Anonymous

He don't want to come off
As desperate

Why would a guy text less often after the first date?

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