Guys, why do you mention going on a date with another woman to a woman you secretly like and want to date? Is it to make her jealous?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

No lol the only women it will make jealous and make her want a date is women who are into drama. If I want to go on a date with a woman I’ll just simply ask her… But there are dudes who do this and usually the opposite happens.

Yes, it may hurt a woman who genuinely likes you but chances are if she isn’t into drama. She will just assume you’re not that into her or you would’ve asked her

[ProbablyClueless]

That would be the goal, but I think any guy worth dating would have to be insane to say something like that to any woman he actually liked.

It's such a stupid and pointless gambol to make.

[DishLady]

Aaaah!


Yes, some guys do it to either make the gal jealous or to show “I am NOT that into you,” however the one who gets hurt is the gal being used to convey the message bc she’s not genuinely appreciated, she’s just the clay duck used for bait/practice on the hunt for the real duck (so to speak).

[Nikki1989]

Is that really a thing? It sounds like teenage behavior.

[Xoirwinkan]

Yeah I've never seen it before, sounds more like something girls would do.

[coachTanthony]

That or to prove to you that other women are interested in him. This way you have to rush to show your interest. Most times this backfires because people don't want to compete with other people.

[Finchie40]

I wouldn’t do such a thing , but he sounds like he is trying to get her jealous if that’s the case , he is definitely testing her to see if she will get jealous and try to stop him from going

[OlderAndWiser]

Whatever it is, it is an immature thing to do. Bad way to introduce himself to you!

[dustybiker2]

If you are keeping it secret how is he to know? Men are not psychic. In a lot of instances they are dense when it comes to woman. Why? Because men have a history of experience of woman saying one thing and meaning another. Unattractive games that leave men always question woman's motives. Stop playing games. Tell the man you like him.

[OneViewpoint]

Well if she’s got you in the friend zone, all bets are off. I’d feel free to talk about dating and banging other women. Or a hot woman who walked by. That’s what friends do, right?

[genericname85]

no it's not to make you jealous. it's to suggest to you that other women want him and that he's attractive to other women so you should be happy if he goes for you, cause he has options. that's the logic.

[WhitneySnow]

Probably, but how do you know this guy likes you and why doesn’t he just ask you out if he likes you so much?

[fonduegirl]

It's an old trick. Tell him to enjoy it and never call you again. His reaction will be priceless!

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake... Just ask/beg him to give you a damn good fucking... Simples.

[alice55]

That's so petty it's a technic for high schooler.

[David318578]

Is this a situation that you put some guy in the friend zone and now you are upset that he has moved on?

[SotiCoto]

Another "Guys, why do you do this thing you don't actually do?" question...

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't play such games, plus if i want to date a woman, i will date her for a serious relationship, i don't date for fun!

[RedInnocent69]

Because girls are sick and want guys more when they’re with other girls

[CubaPirate]

To see if she looks jealous and available perhaps 🤔

[DannyUk2017]

How do you know He likes you?

[Wise4myage]

No, I’d never do something that rude.

[MasterKS]

Yes make her fired and burn with it.

[ethem438]

Yes.