Friends with benefits always say "good night, love". Does it sound like he likes me?

[Anonymous]

we are very affectionate with each other. we are attached to each other. we text daily.

but none of us hinted we want a relationship. I use a lot of pet names like Mr. Lovely bear, Sweetie, honey. He doesn't use it. But he does say "good night, love" every night to me.

We still haven't gone on a date. He has never hinted or said he wanted

[ohsheeT]

When you become friends with benefits with somebody there is a bond. There there is a trust a respect love a friendship that is deeper than being in a relationship sometimes


In his own way he does love you because all the above.

There is a commitment there without a commitment. There is a freedom there without a freedom. There is a bond there without a bond. There is a friendship there. It is deeper than most.

But the moment you start saying I love you. I miss you. I need you. I want you that becomes more More like a relationship And that's when things go wrong. If you start reading things into it or your wants well that's when things go wrong. Not unless you both feel the same way

[ProbablyClueless]

If you guys are naturally super affectionate to each other and use names like that casually, I don't think it means anything. Because he's kind of mirroring your energy.

That said, it might not be a bad idea for you to have a conversation about going on dates and such.

[Asker]

the thing is.. i do like him- he is very nice, great guy but conversation wise, i don't feel like we get along THAT particular way in a romantic sense. There definitely is a lot of physical attraction and I do like him for his character and who he is. We have developed an attachment to each other tho. The day after cuddling him , if i don't get to see him, it is extremely painful. But I end up getting over it tho

[Nikki1989]

[DannyUk2017]

He must be British... Good night "love", See you later "love", Have a nice one "love" doesn't mean I Love You! Or you're my love, is just being polite towards you, or seeing you as a close person...

[Asker]

No he's not British

Funny how u assumed he was

[DannyUk2017]

Well that's a British Slang, so that's why i "funny assumed"...

[spartan55]

So you think a few pet names changes anything? 😂 😂

[Asker]

what makes u think it won't?

[spartan55]

Uh... because it won't. You are free sex. Period. If he wanted a relationship with you then he would be in one with you already.

[Asker]

@spartan55

i told him in the beginning i only wanted friends with benefits

[spartan55]

So why are you now asking if he likes you? That doesn't align with 'only wanting friends with benefits'. So which is it?

[jahaims]

friends with benefits is for people who want the validation of a relationship but are too immature to maintain a healthy one

[Anonymous]

Your playing stupid games and currently winning stupid prizes.

[Opinion Owner]

*you're

[Pterodon]

Why do you care? He’s just a dick for you to use right?

[RHK36]

You sound thirsty. Definitely easy mark for sex.