What's wrong with me, I never find girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I can't talk to girls 😔

[theionano3]

Message me illl talk to ya

[Asker]

I can't, you do

[Asker]

I just followed you, please message me

[theionano3]

Okkk

[YourFutureEx]

Asker, are you 18 or 24?

[ohsheeT]

You need to becat the right place at the right time.. well kinda. You have to be not so serious. Don't try to get a girlfriend every girl. You talk to become friends laugh, enjoyed life. Let them get to know the inside of you who you are. What you are all about don't be so serious tho. And be yourself. Don't look at it as if you're trying to pick up on them. Just enjoy the experience life that moment. Everything else comes way way after just enjoy the moment

[SueShe]

In order to have friends or a girlfriend, you must be proactive and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

But you have to work on yourself first. That would include shyness and social anxiety if those are part of your problem.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.

[Abbycado]

If you can’t talk to girls, that’s the likely culprit.

[Asker]

Hmm any tips for me?

[Abbycado]

Well, if you can’t even talk to a girl, I don’t know where to start.

[Zack-Bann]

You open your mouth and say a word
Following by another word
And so on


It’s the same as talking to anyone


Just practice asking random questions and engaging in conversation and eventually you will move on to flirting and seducing and so on

[slatyb]

What do you mean "I can't talk to girls". How hard is this? You must see people in your life. Do you know their names? Have you asked them? When you are greeting a dozen women of whatever age by name, then you won't have any further problem talking to women your age.

If you are afraid to do this, see a professional counselor.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds like you have your answer: you can't talk to girls!

Start by working on your conversation skills and asking questions. Make sure your hygiene and mental health are in a good place. Maybe change up your hairstyle and wear some better clothes.

[Anonymous]

Your probably too ugly.

[Asker]

I think am average looking

[IHateBeingaMan]

yeah it comes with the terroritory

[In_Trance]

I think you answered your own question