Getting over someone you never dated? Why?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Everything on this planet is energy. EVERYTHING. so that means every thing is connected. .. EVERTHING

EVERYTHING has a Frequency is like a sound wave it's like turning on the radio and the music is sound waves that travel through the air.

It's Energy you feel music because you are energy. To. Some songs you connect with deeper than others.

It's the same thing with human beings. When we are on the same Frequency.. our energy's connect

It's like making love and becoming one with this person.. it's the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel.

The person your trying to get over it with will be hard but you will...

So start learning about energy. Your energy.
Once you do your life will change

You know when people get together and you think we have good Chemistry.

We yes it's Chemistry class energy is way more beautiful...

Energy is a spiritual feeling emotion

I have never read the bible. But I do know that it says Become one with self one with others and one with this universe

The only way that's gonna happen is when you Find yourself.
Understand energy

And the way that you connect with everything that is our destiny

So your energy connected with his and you loved that feeling.

When you start understanding energy. You can connect with anyone's energy

So now that you know that feeling that beautiful feeling.

Let's pretend you and I start talking through text or even voice on the phone. I already feel your energy right now. So you would start to feel mine.

You might feelnit right now as your reading this.

Butbif we were to start talking. Any form we would connect and depending on our conversation would Determine the depth of feeling that we would have of each other's energy. It could be nothing. All the way to omg I have never felt this before what us going on .. lol. it's sounds crazy but it's the truth..

[Zack-Bann]

In the back of my mind I’m still broken about all the things that didn’t happen with a girl I knew since I was 17


My brother called me out on it just 3 days ago
He said I’m unhappy because I constantly feel like I have so much to prove


The truth is: I fell madly in love with the idea of her and me
She was my friend. And still is to this day even if I don’t see her very often


The love is long gone.
We are different people who live in a different place and life has changed both of us, a lot.


But the memories of what was and fantasy of what could have been, still haunt me in a moment of quiet reflection

[Asker]

That’s incredibly honest, thanks for sharing. Was she your first love?

[Zack-Bann]

Not my first crush.
But my first gut wrenching, insomnia inducing love for sure

I would’ve done anything to be with her

And looking back: I should’ve done the simple things to get myself out of the situation we were in

But it is what it is.
We’re all exactly where we were meant to be.
It’s not a happy ending.
But it’s a fair one

[Asker]

It’s easy to look back and blame ourselves for things we could have done, but really we can only move forwards. So it’s better not to stress and trust that life will work out in our favour. Good luck 👍

[Zack-Bann]

Thank you.
That is a lovely sentiment
And a fact as well

[DishLady]

If that's true you should get off your butt and contact her.

[Zack-Bann]

@DishLady She’s been in a committed relationship for the past 3 years. Living together with her girlfriend (she’s Bi)
And they’re both good friends of mine. I see them from time to time

As I said the years changed her a lot
She’s not the girl I fell for
That girl no longer exists
It is what it is

[DishLady]

Sigh… better luck next time. Don’t give up….

[Simslover92]

Took me over 7 years to get over him. He was my first. I think had I not given him my virginity, I wouldn't have felt so strongly for him.

[Asker]

Losing our virginity is a very emotional thing. It’s understandable why it would take so long to move on from them, but its good you didn’t rush your healing ❤️‍🩹

[Simslover92]

Thanks. ❤ It definitely made things easier to move on to the next guy once I was done healing. By the time I finally was over him, I could give my heart to another.

[DishLady]

? With all the details provided I hardly know where to begin...

[Anonymous]

I'm trying. There are various reasons that I think could be at play, but none truly squash my interest.

[Asker]

Maybe try one honest conversation — if the feelings are still there, you deserve to know where you stand.

[Opinion Owner]

I already tried that. She apparently has no interest in talking to me.

[DannyUk2017]

Why? Because Everything that Happened was just VIRTUAL! Nothing face to face! 🤷‍♂️

[Iron_Man]

tell me your story

[In_Trance]

That's ridiculous.