My boyfriend lost interest?

[Jeanne_neko]

He's not showing much interest into me, we haven't had sex yet but he's not showing any interest or excitement either I don't know what to do

[DishLady]

Meh... you're young, why tie yourself down to one guy rather than to date a little and see what's out there -- esp since you're not "together" or sleeping together.

[Jeanne_neko]

im with him since 3 years now and i just can't move on, i wanna do it with him and im trying from my side also I don't know why he never shows interest in doing it :(

[DishLady]

Oh my... no no no, sweetie. That's not the guy for you. Please stop. Perhaps he's gay/bi... who knows nowadays. Please listen to a wise old woman and move on. It's not like he's got a golden dick. Go find a real man.

[BadApple69]

You won’t like this advice but if he has lost interest already then let him go. It’s not what you want in a relationship

[Jeanne_neko]

he's loving me and being nice in same way but when it comes to sex there's no interest thats what im worried about i feel like its affecting relation

[BadApple69]

Ok so I don’t know your boyfriend or anything about him but there are many things that can be going on here. Porn might be a big one… today guys watch porn and masturbate a lot and then aren’t interested in real sex.
Another possibility is that he has a lack of confidence this is earth shattering for a guy. We become afraid to try because we might fail.
And last thing might be he is getting it somewhere else… I doubt this is the case because even if he is getting it elsewhere he (as a typical guy) would still be happy to get it from you too.
I think that’s all I got for you. Hope this helps

[LiamS95]

Try something to make him more interested and I don't mean it necessarily has to relate to sex.

[LiamS95]

It could just something you're both interested in such as cooking together or pretty much anything you can enjoy doing together.

[Jeanne_neko]

we enjoy those things even hugs and kisses but never more i think after 3 years we should be more right? when i talk about this to him he just stops me and doesn't ans me properly why we not doing it

[LiamS95]

I know I would be wanting to give you more pleasure after that long together, even if it was just giving you oral pleasure. I'm not a selfish lover.

[katiesmuff]

Might be a sign to move on!

[Benlovegs]

You are too young for this bs

[CubaPirate]

He's probably interested in someone else

[Jeanne_neko]

he isn't ik he's not the type to cheat he's just workholic, if he could not even bring himself to sleep with me ik he won't move on to other girl because sex is imp in relation not everyone will compromise on it like me :(

[wkhan_87]

Be more romantic for him.