Is your fiancée's desire to have her "hoe phase" really a reason to end your relationship with you high school sweetheart?

[Anonymous]

One guy thought so. Now he's living with his grandmother while watching along on social media as his ex makes her desire a reality.

[MrOracle]

His ex is "spending" her relationship value on empty, short-term experiences which each add trauma to her and permanently lower her value.

Soon, her 20s will be behind her and she's going to assume that she will still be able to get a commitment from a quality man like she could have at 20. What she is going to find is that NO ONE takes her seriously and everyone will forever see her as a hoe who is only good for casual sex. It will probably take a few YEARS of constant hope and disappointment before this truth sinks in, but when it does, she's going to be devastated. And when she eventually learns that there is no way to ever regain what she so easily gave away, and that she will likely spend the second half of her life alone, she's going to be a very miserable woman.

But most 20 year olds don't want to hear this, and their hoe friends are going to gas them up and tell them it isn't true, because misery loves company. Women are like crabs in a bucket - the minute one crab looks like it's going to escape the bucket to freedom, all the other crabs pull it back in, so they all go to the pot together.

[Summeroflove]

Well if someone’s wanting to be with other people besides you that’s grounds for a breakup. Honestly they both probably picked one another for a reason….

[DishLady]

You're saying some guy was with a gal who wanted to be a "hoe" so he ended the relationship... so what? That's absolutely the thing to do. No one wants to be tied to a hoe... not even the ox pulling it... 😂

[Paige90]

Most girls go through a stage like this. He should have enjoyed it and asked her if he could watch.

[Anonymous]

So, I propose to a woman, she accepts, and then wants to bang a bunch of other men before the wedding? Am I understanding that correctly?

If I am, then yes; that is absolutely a valid reason to end the relationship, and any men with even a modest amount of self respect would kick her to the curb immediately.

Even suggesting such a thing is incredibly disrespectful.

[Staximus]

If you're in a relationship with somebody who wants to have sex with other people, they obviously don't give a fuck about your feelings and have no respect for you.

[Cormac995]

Yep 100% goes aren't for marriage. You can be a hoe if you want but remember who would buy the cow when they can get the milk for free?

[mrkdvsn]

I don't see why a fiancé's desire to go through a "garden tool" phase should be reason to end a relationship

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. Someone who want to play around should not be engaged.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Thanks for telling us?

[Anonymous]

You say that like he lost something.😆

[shortster]

Of course.