Why are feminists weak dependent women?

[Summeroflove]

Most women that I’ve met who have a good work ethic, are self sufficient, can cook a meal from scratch, can do things like change her own oil, change a flat tire, and do things like that without needing someone else to do it for her tend to vote Republican…

Most the strongest most capable women I’ve met are warriors not victims. I’ve never met a self proclaimed feminist who is strong or independent. Bad financial habits. Poor work ethic. Can’t do things on her own

[ohsheeT]

It's like most people in the world that like to pretend they have a title of kinda. Most are follower's. And make the motions of other people. But to be fair there are Inddetended women that are strong that are true feminist.

It's even like People that are racist. It's the same exact thing. Down deep they're not racist but.. you are who you hang with. So Instead of being strong and showing the real you and say hey I don't believe in this crap. They follow their friends. And then in time they become a racist.

[seeyounexttuesday]

All of these groups: Feminists, racists, incels blame other people for their problems rather then looking within. They're all morons.

[n8765]

Ok, so you don't see nothing wrong with the system in general?*and I don't mean with the people who are the opposite of all it*

[seeyounexttuesday]

@n8765 What system? What specific aspects?

[Summeroflove]

@n8765 like the new world order?

[Summeroflove]

@n8765 like the great reset?

[Summeroflove]

@n8765 like agenda 2030?

[abbyjgriffin98]

I feel like a lot of people who are strong and independent don't need to label themselves feminist. I think they can be feminists, but they don't have to prove it to anyone. I personally always disliked when women went out of their way to call themselves strong and independent. Strong and independent women don't need to call themselves strong and independent. They just are.

[MasterKS]

@abbyjgriffin98 another impressive, what a women! wow!!

[Summeroflove]

Honestly I think most men would prefer a woman whose strong and independent. You know that a woman who doesn’t NEED you is with you because she wants you.

[Summeroflove]

It’s the same for men who say they are macho men and alpha men…. They’re usually compensating for something this is the female equivalent

[Smegskull]

Alpha male works the same way I think.

[Sunrising]

@abbyjgriffin98 perhaps some strong independent women, feel they are better in a group, than by themselves.

[Anonymous]

I'm a feminist and I can do all of those things so what am I now? These kind of questions are so lame. Opinions don't mean you can do shit. You prove you can do shit by actually doing it. I could be an incel and know how to sew... there's no direct connection here 😉

[blackeagle007]

That means you seem female

[Opinion Owner]

Seem?

[blackeagle007]

Just seem like it

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean exactly

[blackeagle007]

You’re anon. So just means you seem like a female

[Opinion Owner]

I am female but okay

[Summeroflove]

Well that sets you apart from many feminists who make the rest look bad. Who aren’t qualified for positions get hired because of diversity quotas and act like they’re all the sudden the victim when they can’t perform to standard.

They demand to have the same thing the men have (as well as women too) that are more qualified, work harder, and have more experience sometimes by decades.

It’s easier to cry sexism then work hard. At the same time when there is real victims of sexism the sad thing is that people cry wolf so often it HURTS people who are legitimately victims

[Summeroflove]

Maybe a man behind a pink account? Hmmm 🤔

[blackeagle007]

Feminism is why dating is destroyed. It teaches women to be masculine. And teaches women to hate men

[Opinion Owner]

Nope it does not. All it does is let women know there is more to life and that you can opportunities out there for yourself beside just being a housewife and childrearer. Not that there's anything wrong or bad about those things but it is inky fair that women are just as free as men to decide their own destiny and path in life.
I don't hate men. I love men, I am straight. If I hated men enough, I would probably be gay. I want parity with men. And in the West, that is mostly achieved. Elsewhere, not so much. That is why feminism is still needed.

If having the freedom to be who you want to be in life whether that's a CEO or a housewife is masculine, than sure it teaches women "how to be masculine". What a joke.

There's nothing wrong with masculinity and femininity. It's toxic traits on either of them that are bad.

[Opinion Owner]

Summeroflove, I reply on a lot of your questions under my normal account and I am indeed a woman, possibly to my misfortune. I have wished I was a man many times in my life but this is the sex God gave me so I'm willing to accept it.

Diversity quotas in my opinion weren't supposed to be misused like that, they were supposed to challenge the status quo and provide an opening for people who would never be considered otherwise due to deep seated discrimination but here we are.
Now that many parts of the world hate seen that people are people no matter their colour, gender or other rudimentary characteristics, it is less of an issue and in my country at least, it just doesn't exist. Support groups, yeah sure.

And it's the same with rape as well. False rape accusators make actual rape victims look bad.

Fucked up world, eh. Well, I just want to do my best to make it a bit more brighter.

[blackeagle007]

Why don’t you go live in the Middle East and compare it to here?

[Opinion Owner]

I already lived there, that's why I'm a feminist lol

[blackeagle007]

Well you got tons more freedom here

[Opinion Owner]

And that’s at least partially thanks to feminism. Otherwise it’d be the same shit, different country.

[blackeagle007]

We can do better without those groups. They just teach women to be masculine and that all men are evil.

[Opinion Owner]

They don't but believe what you will.

[Summeroflove]

Opinion Owner that’s OLD feminism. New feminism is well be a proud whore but also don’t objectify women.

Women who feel entitled. They don’t want to work hard or for long. They demand say a male dominated profession where the men (and women) who are there. Have worked harder, longer, and have more qualifications then someone whose just stared. Yes they get paid more and have more opportunities. Just like the women who been there the same time.

[Summeroflove]

Are all feminists bad people? No. There are ones that have common sense.

A lot of women who want to be stay at home moms are also great women. But I don’t think most men who marry women who stay home get much of a benefit anymore. Especially with the cost of living. Especially with… Let’s face it a lot of those women want a easy ride in life and have a narcissistic fantasy of what being a stay at home mom/housewife really is and become very resentful later on.

[Summeroflove]

Now. I do agree many times things are meant for something good and get abused. I want QUALIFIED people.

It’s like female pilots. The diversity hires that are women (because there is a smaller pool of applicants of women) make the women who are good pilots look bad.

There are women who make fantastic pilots. But when you have a smaller pool of people to choose from….. it makes it harder to find qualified people.

[Summeroflove]

Now I agree. Rape is horrible and you have false accusers like Carol who says rape is sexy that’s disgusting to me.

But it does hurt real victims of rape in addition to possibly ruining lives of innocent men.

That’s the same for sexual harassment and sexism claims. If someone’s heads so far in the gutter they make something sexual that’s not. They can get someone innocent fired even charged criminally. In addition to if everyone says it. When it really happens it’s not believed.

[Summeroflove]

I think MOST people have moved past racism, sexism, and all the other isms and phobics.

It’s swung the other way where instead of considering everyone based off merit. It’s taking small pools of applicants and hiring based on sex, race, etc.

What does that do? Hire incompetent people who make people of whatever diversity status they have. Be woman, certian race, sexual orientation. etc. and make them look bad.

Because people say… WOW! If that’s how women fly planes I don’t want female pilots. Even though there are women who are amazing pilots

[DishLady]

Lol. The strong ones are the ones who don’t need the fucking label to be who they are. I think that’s the issue….

[Summeroflove]

Yes. It’s the same with so called conservative women who are all the sudden conservatives once theh find a man who will let them stay home and not have to work

[Cormac995]

Woman that have no skills or real value say they're feminists because it masks their insecurities about being helpless and completely dependent on others. They just say "I'm a strong independent feminist" because they aren't that and it embarrasses them. It's also often a way of biting back as a femcell. A lot of feminists are woman with awful personalities and as a result are at best good enough to fuck but never good enough to commit. Meanwhile they set standards mountains above reasonable and wonder why they're already be with their crap personalities. This makes them bitter so they say "Fine I don't need you anyways!" Basically it's all rooted in denile.

[n8765]

How you can say if someone is weak or not enough, if you didn't let them through generations the option to practice their independence but let them be preoccupied by something else, like Chores

[n8765]

By you I meant the system*

[Cormac995]

@n8765 The fact you were triggered enough by this statement you felt the need to bite back says to me you're one of them. I never said feminism was inherently bad or that woman don't face discrimination I'm just saying when the kind of woman he describes do this, this is why I never said all feminists. THat said I've never met someone who calls themself a feminist that wasn't a total bitch or a guy even more chronically single than me sniffing around a girls skirt. I've litterally never met anyone who calls themself a feminist that doesn't act like that. Feminism used to be a good thing, but it transitioned from a movement about the liberation of woman and instead was turned into a selfish excuse to go me, me, me all the time and demand special treatment with none of the work or effort for being a woman. The turned a movement about the liberation of others into a liberation of the self which corrupted the entire concept and made modern feminism a joke.

[n8765]

Having insecurities is a human being things , doesn't matter the gender, and if I have mines, doesn't mean i can't bring logical reasonable and valuable arguments as everyone else with its insecurities

[WhitneySnow]

I disagree that feminists aren’t strong or independent. But it’s more of a mental and emotional strong and independent. Plus the skills you mention tend to be more valued in rural backgrounds and people from those backgrounds tend to vote Republican.

[Nikki1989]

Perhaps you need to meet more femenists before talking utter bollocks.

[Summeroflove]

Met very few who are nice people. Except younger ones who got stabbed in the back by so called feminists and eventually walked away from it

[n8765]

You know everyone values different things doesn't mean they are inferior or the way they live or prefer things are wrong.. everyone finds fulfilment differently so if a women don't chop logs doesn't mean she is not strong.. she just don't need to prove herself in it or don't feel that will fulfill her or show herself

She found things which is fulfilling her and brings happiness for her.. and it's enough for her.. and she doesn't let someone standards to be her way of life

[Sunrising]

I've no information on the subject, how many feminists have you met? But you're categorising a whole group of people, and saying this is what they are all like, and I'd suggest this is highly unlikely.

[Anonymous]

"Most the strongest most capable women I’ve met are warriors not victims."

This ^!

[Summeroflove]

And that’s true.

I love the whole “well I don’t need a man”. Then why do they bitch about men? Move on. Someone who doesn’t need someone who either just has not found someone or wants to be single stops talking about it.

But here is the thing this goes for men and women. Someone who NEEDS you and genuinely wants to be dependent. Probably isn’t your best choice. Because once there isn’t a need for you anymore or they find someone better chances are they will dump you.

If someone genuinely wants you…. They love you. They love who you are. They genuinely built a connection. Have became your best friend. They’re loyal. That’s what you should want.

Now sure different people want different things out of a relationship and that comes down to compatibility. Nothing wrong with being a stay at home mom for instance. But I do warn men of a lot of those women who say “I just want a man to marry me so I don’t have to work”

Because once those women figure out that lifestyle isn’t as glamorous as they once believed. They become very resentful.

[Summeroflove]

Wow I went on a rant. Don’t get me wrong warriors need a person whose safe to vent to. To show emotions to. To get encouragement from. That should go both ways.

But there is a major difference in that and someone whose playing the victim. Acting like nothings their fault. Those people are losers.

Genuinely…. The most capable women and strongest women. Are women who have a amazing work ethic. They stand up for themselves and for others. They don’t NEED to be dependent on anyone.

They help others. Because feminists claim to be for women and have one another’s backs…. But they only thing they got one another’s back for is stabbing one another in the back.

In professional relationships and any other relationship…. They claim to be for one another and do nothing but stir drama and stab one another.

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

judgmental. If it wasn't for a woman you're hateful ass wouldn't exist. Dumb dumb!

[Summeroflove]

My moms not a feminist

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

You're mom is a stupid fuck who raised a racist dumb dumb!

[Summeroflove]

Okay

[zagor]

Not my experience in general. You must live in a red state.

[Berethor]

Ironic, doesn't it? feminists tend to be 'small name, big ego' type, it's pretty funny. :)

[LiftingFencer]

Being weak feminine and humble is a mark of wisdom mental toughness and integrity.

[Anonymous]

Lame rage bait.

[Summeroflove]

You seem entertained

[Sal_Monella]

Feminists are taught to believe they are entitled.

[Anonymous]

I don't think they are.