Are you a selective person to have relationships with?

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Yes, I am very selective and I want the best and most beautiful things, and I try to give the best.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Yes I'm very selective with everything I do I'm very kinda quiet person who doesn't let to many people in
and when I do you have a friend for ever.. about the only thing Im not selective in is people who need help
I help anyone I see that needs help in that moment.

It's like our paths cross for a reason like I said I'm very quiet and reserved until that moment and then. I will say hello. Looks like you can use a hand. And then I just take charge then say have a good day and leave when finished

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

Vert selective. Which sometimes works against me. I chat up very few women. And I make it really hard for women to chat me up. That keeps most women away. But once in a while I run into a woman who either gets intrigued and wants to know who the guy is who's not interacting with anyone. Or, they take meeting and befriending me as some sort of personal challenge. In those cases all my silent aloof behavior does it make them try harder, LOL. Some of them have been really persistent. For years.

nastyb · Accepted Answer

its hard to be selective because the person you think is amazing in the beginning, usually don't turn out to be amazing at the end. you don't truly know who you are dealing with until many years later

Summeroflove · Answer

I am that’s not only for myself but for someone else as well. Obviously I don’t want someone I’m not genuinely attracted to and i don’t want to waste what I have on someone whose non deserving.

So many people have so much to offer but waste it on losers. Both men and women are guilty of this. Because they feel sorry for someone and believe their lies and guilt tripping.

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes. It is a miracle I found my wife.

I 100% reject hook up culture, the sexual revolution, degeneracy. Almost all women partake in that now so all are women I'd never have a committed relationship with.

If I were still single I'd probably have a 2% chance of finding a worthy partner.

The amount of women doing sex work on Onlyfans, the amount of women getting piercings and tattoos, the amount of women posting endless thirst traps on social media, who let every guy they date hit it, the amount of women clubbing, wanting hot girls trips while in relationships.

Not much out there. I know all the empowered women think guys should consider it an honor to want to marry some woman and be her 15th sex partner and risk divorce and alimony.

I was very picky. Things have gotten much worse over the last 10 years and they keep getting more degenerate.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Very selective... but I have... had... fun along the way. I didn't play the game by shutting down every option just because they weren't perfect... I enjoyed them until they got replaced by better options.

I made it mutually beneficial as well so it's not like I used them and threw them in the garbage with a broken heart either. Changes were almost always mutually agreed upon as I moved on.

Anonymous · Answer

I think that's a matter of opinion, of perspective. I don't think I'm that selective. But a woman does have to make her interest in me, known to me. This eliminates the majority of the women right off the bat. So if you consider that selective, then by your definition, not mine, I am.

WonderingManII · Answer

Number 1) The person should have a relationship with Jesus. Number 2) They should be attractive. Number 3) They should be willing to talk to me about anything as long as it isn't something that could get me or them into trouble. Number 4) They should live close enough to me so that we can date.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

A relationship … Not sure if the word is selective or particular, but I yeah. Whereas my little head largely doesn’t give a damn. The big head has to see them and talk with them so the bigger head tends to steer the meat vessel. Thankfully…

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Enjoy while you can... as another 20 years will fly by, and with "this thinking" you'll end up with 2 positions... Single Mother, or just simply Single, and after you'll come here to Cry about it or you'll also become a dog/cat person...🤷‍♂️

rosemilk · Answer

yes. had an awful experience with past coworkers (friendship only). never again lol

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I am selective so selective that I dont even bother or want to know anyone.

Shiprex · Answer

I'm going against the trend as I'm adaptable and kind enough to recognise people have flaws that can be tolerated and accepted if not adjusted and eliminated.

People change as they age. Grow with them.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I never got involved with girls that were sketchy. Even the bar tender that I dated had some pretty amazing attributes, She had a beautiful voice and she could play guitar. She won all the local open mics around here.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

In a way, most people are selective, even if it's for the wrong things..

tzdc21 · Answer

Yes, as anyone should be. Be realistic but selective.

TheLovelyWoman · Answer

Yes. I’m very selective when it comes to who I have sex with.

iFarted · Answer

For a serious relationship, yes. Not so much when it's just a first date. That's not to say I do not have standards though.

grungeberry · Answer

Does selective mean having (high) standards?

Shihab_91 · Answer

Yes sure , im going to spend the rest of my life with her

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Most of my adult life single so definitely yes

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I'm very selective, that's just one of several reasons why I'm still single.

Grond21 · Answer

I hardly approve of this attitude and I agree completely.

queenofcardio · Answer

I wasn't too picky before but now I am

Staximus · Answer

What do you mean by the best and most beautiful things?

nawtee_me · Answer

You are certainly one of the beautiful things….. have a good day my friend….

serious · Answer

Yes I am very choosy, picky and selective.

FenixG45 · Answer

Isn't Everyone? The only ones who are NOT selective, are the ones looking to get laid... by anyone!

Jerre · Answer

I feel the same as you

Amur8711 · Answer

I would say I have been maybe too selective. Lol

KateCrombie · Answer

Yes i am

capriVib · Answer

I'm not picky.

robocop666 · Answer

Yup only the best women will suit me.

soe11 · Answer

Same as you my dear.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

We say "picky" here, but yes

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Can you clarify the question?

Light_beam · Answer

yes, i am.. so much

HДLILБΞУ · Answer

Yes! Ben seçilmem seçerim..

CarolinaCutie5 · Answer

Very selective

Sam1133 · Answer

Ohk noted 🥰

cavedweller1973 · Answer

Definitely

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