"Help any Black women/darkerskin ladies I need dating advice skintone bias😞?

[Anonymous]

" Hi everyone my storytime im darkskin & a female I'm 26 years old my crush been been flirting with me for 2 weeks but I noticed he only flirts with me when other's are not around last night on the job I told him I liked him because I thought he liked me back I handed him my phone number I left out early but I saw through the window he takes the paper runs to a group of White women tells them bad stuff about me like he wasn't interested & trying to seep with me because I'm darkskin he's a fair skin mixed guy half black half white he starts laughing at me with the girls infront my face how he don't date black women but been flirting with me in s#xually suggestive way for weeks he doesn't know i heard him saw and the females talking bad about us black girls infront of White women I cried last night been insecure about my skintone &like no man really likes me this has happen before in the past men & women laughing at me & mistreated me in relationships 😢😑

[ohsheeT]

Ok stop tight there. Take two steps back this is not about what other women experience. This is about you... and it's happing to first believe in yourself. That's number 1. Number 2. It's to teach you why you need to believe in yourself. Because there are dirty heart mind soul. Mean out there that think they are gods gift. And they are the man. Noooooooo.

And don't let a guy. Not a man make you think any thing. At all.

Look he just showed a bunch of other women who he truly is he's a liar a back stater a snitch he's a lesser trying to project him self as a big shot. Man's man.

And now these other women also see the. Real him

Don't be sad don't be hurt. Be thank ful for everything that just happen

He is fake he is a fraud. And everyone knows it now.

You canot cry over this type of hurtful fake person.

Next time your around him with all those other women. You need to walk up to him. And Say I really just needed to thank you for showing everybody who you really are in this department That you're faking you cannot be trusted That you would rather cause drama than have The best department you create chaos. I just wanted to thank you for that


Don't you dare cry over him You have nothing to be sorry about. You have nothing to be ashamed about. So smile and do not look at it in a negative way towards yourself. He blew it all the negative goes towards him. It's on him. It proves who he really is. You just keep on smiling and find yourself. This life is about you and your confidence. Find it quickly. Be the best you can become. It's good to think about things but never let a man make you cry

[Avicenna]

Find a guy that respects you

[Asker]

Thank you I usually don't share my business but I need advice & comfort 💝

[Avicenna]

I’m sorry you had that experience. Just know that there are plenty of men that would love to date you.

[Summeroflove]

Let me be straight up if someone’s ashamed they have a crush on you then they aren’t worth your time. I wouldn’t waste time on him at all.

You are probably very attractive…. But maybe he has racist family that doesn’t like interracial marriages. Liking someone isn’t a shameful thing. It’s beautiful… and someone like that isn’t relationship material

[Summeroflove]

And that isn’t true. Your skin tone is beautiful and don’t let anyone tell you it’s not. People who say it’s not just feel bad about themselves.

You can message me if you want. You sound very attractive

[Zylos]

There are a ton of men in the world, I am sure you can find plenty who will like you. As for people who treat you bad, just move on. Learn whatever lessons you can.

[Anonymous]

I think you need therapy.

[Asker]

I love the way I look he needs therapy trying to embarrass me for my race skin color he's the inw that's wrong not me i dont dislike ww but h's has self hatred but ofcourse I'm hearing this y'all love for us to hate ourselves uplift your beauty standards

[Anonymous]

GTFO Troll

[zagor]

Sounds a mite paranoid.

[Asker]

I'm not. Mite I'm human being just like you I'm not paranoid I watched him say it in 2025 many of our men don't respect us or appreciate our beauty uplift Europeans since slavery