How to build confidence around girls you like?

[Anonymous]

I am okay when i talk to girls i dont find attractive or iam not interested. But talking to attractive girls scares me a bit. I feel like if I approach a random girl it will be like i am bothering her or she will be like what this guy wants. Also i am not best at communication so i am scared it would be like me coming up to her and then dont know what to talk about.

[DishLady]

She probably IS wondering what you want... Tell her, just not so obviously.

You're at a party or networking thing. A girl you're interested in is talking about whatever -- flying to the moon... looking for a new place... so long as she's not talking about PMS/her blood flow you can catch onto the last bit of the convo and chime in as if you were there the whole time, then put out your hand and say "Hey I'm Brad (or whatever your name is...)."

Or if you see it's the pretty friend of the plain gal you were talking to you say "Hey, you're X's friend, right? Hey, I'm Brad. She and I were just talking about __ and she mentioned you're into that too."

Simple. Remember, there's nothing different about the PROCESS of talking to a guy or to a gal. It's just your GOAL is a bit different, lol.

[Chrissywakeup]

First of all change your mindset. Instead of thinking, “I hope she likes me,” think, “Let me just have a normal conversation and see if we connect.” That takes the focus off trying to impress and more on just being present. Also start with small talk

[Anonymous]

Learn to not give a 💩.

Honestly that is the best advice I can give any guy. Whether she has a big ego, or no ego whatsoever, women do not like a guy who gives them too much importance. I'm not saying be an a**hole. I just mean learn to treat her like just another human being that you're curious about and be ok with walking away if she pulls some janky 💩. This says you have a spine, that you have self worth, and that's truly what she wants. When you act like a man you should be if she's worthwhile she'll behave like the woman she should be. And by that confidence will become self fulfilling.

[Anonymous]

Ohhh why do u like this girl?