I'm 14 and going into high school on September 6th, I like this girl and on the pep rally, she sat beside me, and I stayed silent the whole time. I regret not talking to her. How do I build up confidence to talk to her, and what should I say, ask, or even do?
Do you have a younger sister, a female friend, or a female cousin? If you do, you probably tease/playfully mock them a lot right?
Or, when you were like 6 years old, you probably did with the girls at school.
The best way to flirt is to come in with that type of energy.
A guy like you when you’re 14 and you see a girl you like your natural inclination is to do the opposite. You’ll tend to see the girl as this angelic being, and you want to be super nice to her. At least I did.
I’m not saying don’t be nice, but I am saying that just kissing ass bores them. Flirting the way I just described as long as it’s not actually mean-spirited is fun.
Say 👋… Silent Moment.
Go home: Record yourself so that your “perfect bird voice” does not scare you when you hear it…. watch yourself in mirror as you tell it. Rehearse THEN…
—Woman-sitting around buying Time amongst women but ☝️. So… Ladies, what’s going on with my dog ⁉️ I take all these precautions…ceiling fan on screen porch and whole exit door…I treat and cure and everything in Walmart…2 months in I went into University Vet…flabbergasted ‼️
Ok next time your in a pep rally with this girl or find yourself next to her in class find something relatable within the current situation to comment on. Like “dang this class is never ending” or something like that. Then u can introduce yourself without it being random. Also don’t be afraid if u say something goofy or embarrass yourself!! Girls find it cute
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you just have to learn to do this naturally , there is going to be a lot of chances to talk to girls at high school. so yeah there will be other girls and you sort of have to learn how to do this
You either want to talk or you don't. Just make the decision already.
If you can't be courageous, be shameless.
Say "Good morning / afternoon Miss [Surname]."
Don't masturbate
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