Is it only ok to go 50/50 if the man can't have multiple women?

[Vegasrunner]

[Summeroflove]

Well having multiple women or multiple men in a exclusive relationship is wrong. It’s one thing to date around (I said date around not sleep around) to find someone compatible.

But what different people want out of a relationship is different. That simply comes down to compatibility which is why we date. But every relationship that’s functioning should be 50/50. That may look different in different relationships however.

One sided relationship rarely end well. You can have traditional roles where both people work EQUALLY hard in different roles. That’s still 50/50. One takes half the other takes the other half.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove I agree for women having multiple relationships is wrong. For men it highlights are value. Also your premise is flawed it's actually 50/50 relationships that end most of the time.

[Summeroflove]

Well women who are loyal and aren’t whores don’t want a man who isn’t loyal and not a whore. That goes against her own dignity and self value to be with a man like that.

[Summeroflove]

Now maybe a lot of women WANT a certain man…. Yet he chooses a certain woman that’s one thing.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Actually women don't care if men have other women provided he takes care of them. Women that are hot enough to attract HV men understand that we will have other options.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Sounds like you're speaking from a position of inexprience. How many women have you been with?

[Summeroflove]

And men who are HV tend to want the best option. Not a loser who likes being cheated

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Doesn't sound like you wouldn't be the best person to speak to that. A women who understands her place in a HV man's hierarchy is a winner not a loser

[Summeroflove]

A woman who wants a man who cheats is a loser.

A woman who wants a man because he has options but picked her because he genuinely likes her

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove I agree. If a man can't provide for a women he's a cheater.

[Summeroflove]

If you want a relationship where you’re used. That’s what you’re going to get with your mindset

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove I have numerous relationships with women going on currently. Why would that make you feel used?

[Summeroflove]

So you’re giving money to lots of different women…. Wow

[Summeroflove]

You think the stripper loves you too?

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Why do you equate having a lot of women w/ giving them money?

[Summeroflove]

Well you said about a provider…. So obviously you’re providing for them

[Summeroflove]

Dude. If you’re giving them money. That’s why they want you…. Not because they genuinely are attracted especially if they’re aware you’re seeing other women.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove U think I understand your confusion. That's not what I said, go read the statement again. I said that if a man can't provide for a woman it's cheating. Why you equated that how you did makes sense because of your inexprience. As a man your job is to create resources and decide who you give them to. Women are attracted to men who can provide that doesn't mean all receive the provisioning. It also means that the ones who do need to fall under the providers authority. As long as you're more focused on intpreting vs listening this will be difficult for you to understand.

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Again this is a conclusion you created based on your inexprience. Don't intpret, listen.

[Summeroflove]

Okay

[Vegasrunner]

@summeroflove Glad I could educate you.

[Summeroflove]

Yes professor

[WonderingManII]

Don't fight society. It will win every time.

[Anonymous]

No, because it's not fair, some men don't have even one woman.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Life isn't fair.

[Opinion Owner]

I know, but it should be... if only some people would try to make it fair.