Guys, have you ever thought a woman was out of your league?

[Anonymous]

Movies are the most common place I see this. This type of thinking may come from comparing yourself to the average man or what you think a man should be.

Of course, I don't know where a man's confidence comes from to ask women out. That might be my next question if it's not frequently asked on a site like this. I can't imagine it wouldn't be.

[ohsheeT]

Not at all they were just not my type of girl. I have meant some of the most beautiful women. But the moment they open there mouth beauty turned to not my type at all. Not even close I've also have meant women that other guys would point out the flaws they seen in them .. I didn't see them I seen smart. Happy. Confident wise. Beautiful heart kind .

[Orion84]

I can't remember ever having that thought before, no, but then I don't really believe in "leagues" either.

I don't believe anyone is inherently better, or worse, than anyone else. Just because you have money, or are attractive, doesn't mean you're automatically a better person than someone else.

[Asker]

Exactly my thoughts, thank you.

[HawkPerception]

Yes, and I still think many are. It has nothing to do with jobs either and everything to do with personality and beauty.

[SotiCoto]

I used to when I was young and naive... but one thing I learnt over the years is that women generally don't perceive their value the same way the men around them do. There are both women who have grossly exaggerated self-opinions despite only being mediocre at best... and women who have very little confidence despite being absolute stunners and often quite capable besides. If a guy goes around simply assuming women are "out of his league" then he might be cheating himself out of an easy win without ever realising.
That aside... some women are simply a bad match for a particular guy. Like they might look good, but sometimes it is obvious they're going somewhere the guy can't follow, so to speak.

[Ask105]

Men have to build confidence and say the right words to attract a woman 50percent words 50 percent his look regardless a lot of women are to busy to interact with men or hear them out I’ve approached 7 and10s she will look at me either way the out of league men now a days are faced with not being a6ft millionaire sad truth the hotter you are we think you’re more stuck up tho

[Kaneki05]

Out of my league meaning they're better than me? Most are.
Out of my league meaning worse than me? Some are for sure though the bar is pretty low, we are talking about the 50 year old cat lady here or a girl who don't know how to spell their name.

Everyone has leagues it's just a term for do they have good qualities or bad qualities which everyone has more so or less so.

[HighValue]

No, but I am often far out of their league, especially when it comes to moral decisions and the past, but also physically too.

[Asker]

@highvalue
hm! How is that? Just thinking out loud, you don't have to answer.

[WonderingManII]

I feel like all women are out of my league, but if I get lucky and she likes me I won't complain.

[slatyb]

Yes, and I think some still are.

[LiamS95]

No I never have and never will.

[Anonymous]

Only when I was younger.

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope.

[cavedweller1973]

Definitely