Have you ever dated someone way out of your league?

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At least according to many peoples definition of it let’s say. I know the people will be here saying “leagues don’t exist” which I do tend to agree. But…. That’s not the question

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Way out of your league according to whom? Your peers? Yourself?
What made this person "out"?
If they dated you, they didn't consider you out of their league, did they?

Do you mean too good looking, too rich, too popular, too smart? And if you're dating, you're seeing each other regularly, aren't you? So, clearly, they aren't out of your league according to EITHER of you, eh?

I think weighing these factors is important. I always think the "out of your league" factor is a mental construct more important to outsiders and impressed upon you BY them.

If you can cast this restriction off, you'll be better off.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Leagues exist. In terms of old money , race , health , height etc

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

I’d really like to say leagues don’t exist but they do , where I’m from it’s often referred to as ‘ punching’. .. “ he is punching above his weight”
I have generally stayed within my league / punched my weight as far as “I’m concerned” , even though some people in my life would disagree apart from one girl back in my 20’s. For me it was like she walked out of my dreams. She was stunningly attractive & funny / quirky cute. Basically I was her rebound even though I didn’t fully realize it at the time.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

I don't remotely agree with the definition of leagues , complete and utter bullshit and a killer of confidence amongst individuals, it seems to be a USA thing

PLEASE stop rating everything it's bullshit , really.

However in. the spirit of the question. YES , yes and yes , very many times.

Finchie40 · Answer

No , mainly because I wasn’t shy , when I see a beautiful girl that catches my eye , I go for it and just be myself and take the chance on whether she will be interested in me or not. By being that way , actually works for me . One thing about most girls’ is they love a guy that is confident that doesn’t act like he is hot shit or acts like his shit doesn’t stink , Females’ see right through that shit. I don’t consider myself the best looking guy but when it comes to girls’ there is something about me that they are drawn to , Once her and I get closer together , I will eventually ask her that question , and most of them said it’s because i actually listen to them and i am not stuck up and they love my personality and my heart because i am very easy going and laid back and respectful and not very judgmental , then she will say something physically about me that is hot. I had girls’ tell me my eyes were sexy , my voice , my arms my chest , etc. so just be yourself and you will realize no one is out of your league , we all eat and shit the same pretty much just find someone that has a lot of the same interests as you do , so you both don’t get bored of each other if you are looking for a long term relationship with someone

DishLady · Answer

I don't typically consider "leagues"... if we're around the same age (give or take 5 years), both educated and smart/funny and our personalities click then the guy is fair game.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

There have been a few girls I believe were interested in me in my early to mid 20s. Im shy and dont know how to talk to anyone. Plus a few would have other guys coming up and trying to compete with me for her. Usually they would get bored the women and call me a f***** gay or proceed to entertain themselves with music

PrincessC16 · Answer

Yes I have, actually recently. I even told him that we were from different classes. Of course he said no we aren't. I know I would have always felt like he's better than me. Which would run my self-esteem right back into the ground.

beenherebefore · Answer

I always feel the guys I dated were way out of my league. I think my Husband is out of my league too but people around me say we have the same attractiveness level and said the same of my previous partners.

Priya99999 · Answer

This one guy I have a crush on, he could have any girl he wants, he's got looks, power, talent like a god.. I'll never feel like I could satisfy or make him happy

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Nope I only date guys within my league looks wise.. but even some of them think they are better than me lol.

Justneedtokno · Answer

I don’t think out of my league, but more so more educated, and I thought that I wouldn’t of been able to handle it. They were still attracted to me and everything I just over thought the situation and let them slip away.

OneViewpoint · Answer

No, never. Usually it's very much the opposite (social status, wealth, education, intelligence, experience).

Nikki1989 · Answer

If you don't believe in leagues, how can anyone be out of your league? The answer is NEVER.

anmari2001 · Answer

Once, I felt so ugly every time we would take pictures  Good we are not together anymore 🫠

conanbdetective · Answer

Yes. It didn't feel any different. Just shoot your shot.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Both time I did date they were out of my league like I was probably a 3 back then and now Sub-Zero and they were top shelf

Fireguy17 · Answer

nope, I never knew about what "league" anyone was in.

Amob79 · Answer

I absolutely have! It really showed how much I lacked confidence in myself. Everywhere we went I could see the eyes of not just men but women checking her out then the locked on me and I heard someone say once “what’s she doing with him” I grew from the situation cause she brought a side of me I never knew I had.

Anonymous · Answer

No, lol, for me that's a science fiction, I never dated in my life :P At least not in this life, maybe in my past life, though, I can't remember it.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Hasn't happened in my lifetime lol 💘 cupid must've missed me many times or I make the Starship enterprise jealous with my shields lol 😆 😁

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Nope. haven't dated many, but all perfectly in my league

LiamJHayden · Answer

According to others, yes, precisely because I do not subscribe to the idea and I have no fear in approaching.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No…… even if they might’ve been above average physically (I’m average physically) mentally they were not above average

Lokiion · Answer

This the problem why is leagues even a thing people are people

Professor-college · Answer

Yes. I didn't work out because she want to have four children and I am almost unable to get a woman pregnant because of some health issues

exitseven · Answer

I married her.

Redstang88 · Answer

Yeah definitely

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Wasn’t that lucky before

Ladsin2 · Answer

I'm out of everyone's league.

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