Would you date a girl that’s short , skinny small boobs and small butt?

Question

It feels men only like thick girls with huge boobs and ass and no one likes short skinny girls. 😔 I’m not rich so can’t do surgery for bigger ass and boobs and hard to gain weight I’m naturally short and skinny.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

That's essentially my "type" - around 60% of the women I have ever dated were petite girls with smaller boobs and butts. My girlfriend now fits that description - she's a petite Filipina.

While petite girls aren't EVERY guy's cup of tea, I would guess that more than half of all men would happily be with a petite girl and maybe 30% of men specifically prefer them. True, that's likely to be a higher percentage among white men and lower for black men, but there are still plenty of black men with petite wives.

If you think that your size is what's stopping you from dating, I can assure you that it's NOT your size in the vast majority of cases. It might be a factor once in a while, but not most of the time.

To make a generalization that may or may not apply to your (and I don't know you and have no way to know either way), it's FAR more common for men to pass on or disqualify a woman because of her attitude, behavior, personality, or her past, than it is for her looks. Women always want to blame their looks because it allows them to rationalize spending more money on themselves for makeup, hairdo, new clothes, or whatever, but looks are probably the problem only 20% of the time - the other 80% is personality and behavior. That could also include just being really shy - it's much harder to get to know a shy person and it's easy to step on a social "land mine" and be called creepy, so that could be a legit point of struggle.

Women are generally only interested in men who will be an asset to her in one of (usually) more ways, but women rarely honestly ask themselves how she would be an asset to the man she's interested in. And I have to remind everyone, if, as a woman, you are thinking your resume makes you an asset (your education, your degree, your career, your income), you need to understand that these things mean exactly ZERO to a man at best and it's a negative at worst. If you tell a man your resume when trying to communicate your value, he's going to turn right off and demote you. A man wants to hear about how you will be his helpmate, his supporter, and in most cases, the proud mother of his children, and how you will make his home a place of peace. That's what most men who are actually looking for a serious relationship are looking for. And if you are trying to pursue a man for a relationship and he doesn't already want a serious relationship, you are completely wasting your time, because he will NEVER change his mind.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I would have to see a picture of her to give a better answer , but overall everyone has their own preferences of what they like and don’t like , Me personally isn’t attracted to to a real skinny girl , if she looks like a skeleton , then I won’t be interested, if she has some meat on her bones then I would more than likely be attracted to her , it also comes down to her face and body and her personality,

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Learn to love yourself as you are. Big, thick girls are a "type" that guys like to LOOK at. Has nothing to do with the quality of their personality, values, interests.

When guys are young, they often go for "outward" before "inward."

Think about who you are and what you have to offer to someone dating you. Is it REALLY about your height, tits and ass? Or about your intrinsic gifts.

If guys are dating just for the outside, you don't want to have to deal with them anyway. Let 'em have the thick, big bittied, big assed women who may or may not have anything else to offer but their looks.

Hofefully, you have other qualities besides your outer shell. And who's the longest and healthiest lived? Not the chunkies who will more than likely get fat and sloppy, while you'll be slim for a lifetime, more than likely.

Don't try to force yourself into looking like some momentary or trendy "ideal." These ideals are passing phases, just like dress trends. Live your life in the body you have, dress it well, eat healthy, exercise and take good care. You'll find someone who'll like you in the package you came in.

It's about the WHOLE person. Someone will recognize that. Might not be right this moment, but you'll get there. .

DishLady · Accepted Answer

(Sounds like she fits in someone's purse, lol.) Just checking in to see what the fellows say...

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It would be more helpful if you had posted a photo of yourself, but. . . in general, there are as many guys who like petite girls with smaller features as there are guys who prefer bigger girls with bigger features. The problem may not be your appearance but your apparent lack of self-confidence.

ohsheeT · Answer

Hold everything don't you dare get any kind of surgery. Believe me you are perfect the way you are. You just need to remove that word surgery from your vocabulary... we need to figure this out quick

Avicenna · Answer

Yeah, there are more important things than big boobs

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I couldn't date a girl who thinks of herself as a body type made to please whatever guys she thinks she has to please. It's not that I would reject her per se, it's simply that I couldn't meet her, as we don't live in the same circles, nor in the same world.

Orion84 · Answer

That's actually my preference, so yeah, I would happily date a small, petite woman.

The majority of my dating history has, in fact, been women exactly like that.

Not every guy is attracted to "thicc" girls.

SixFootSexy · Answer

I just read that you have 34C boobs. That is more than adequate. You don't realize for a majority of guys just want a handful and they won't care as much about booty. There's a whole category of forums dedicated to women with your petite, curvy build.

glennos89 · Answer

Sounds like a perfect girl to me to be honest! I rather have a girl with small boobs and small butt then the other way around. As long as she has a nice female shape it's perfect to me. I don't want or need big tits and a big ass

emeraldsaphire · Answer

Honestly from my experience guys aren't to picky. I think I'm a pretty average looking women. Medium sized boobs and butt, a little extra on my belly, but I still get lots of attention

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

I am six foot tall, my wife is 4'11''. 54 years later It has not been a problem. Except when dancing, it was hard to gaze into her eyes when her nose was buried in your chest. She was 36 24 36. but the two 36's were not far apart.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I've dated women like that pretty often. I actually have one chasing me at the moment who is a knockout. So no, not all of us want thick girls with huge boobs. A fit body and small boobs are very attractive to me.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I think there is a ton of us men that see that as ideal. You want to know who doesn't... gay men and other women.  Gay men and other women hate the attention skinny chicks get and steal from them.

just_a_potato · Answer

I mean, you're probably straight. But if it shows there's a demand for girls like you too,  I'd  date you... and I think it's extra honest when it comes from a fellow lady. I'm sure you're more attractive than you think. 🥹❤️

HighValue · Answer

Yeah. Sounds great to me. I like skinny wimpy looking girls. But, do you have tattoos, nose rings, or unnaturally colored hair? Because THOSE are the things I don't like.

Brittanyrunner06 · Answer

While I wouldn’t have a relationship with a girl, I find skinny girls far more attractive. Not overly skinny. Just healthy skinny. Like, fit girls.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Don’t do surgery even if you become rich. Bolt ons are awful. Also, yes, many men do like what you described. There is just a surplus of fluffy women these days is all that is some places round is the men’s only option.

StephanieChick111 · Answer

There are a lot of guys that like that. Don't get surgery.

Anonymous · Answer

Ultimately, her physical appearance is not the most important thing. I mostly worry about how I would work with her. Obviously you should be physically appealing, but guys like girls at all sizes.

sinestro23 · Answer

casually date/hookup with? Sure. Longterm? No, not unless you're a ridiculously good woman and super kinky on top

soe11 · Answer

I like skinny and fair skin colour.  Must be average boobs and buttocks size.  The boobs and buttocks are beauty of female.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Yeppers  I dont have a boob fetish, don't care for a big ass so she would be right up my alley.

Berethor · Answer

Yea, I prefer small boobs over fake boobs, so surgery is not a good option I believe.

jeremy_09 · Answer

That's the perfect girl for me, like Hayden Panettiere.

Shiprex · Answer

Yes as long as she was nice and kind and fun to be around.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

If she's skinny she has to be tall. If she's short with small boobs she needs to have a big butt. Hey, I don't make the rules.

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

Trust me when a guy loves you he’ll love you, don’t worry about it

SotiCoto · Answer

Paedophiles do. You just described exactly the sort of thing paedophiles go for.

Likes2drive · Answer

You’re actually my type and most men love petite women

Anonymous · Answer

"It feels men only like thick girls with huge boobs and ass." False ^. Most guys don't prefer thick girls or girls with huge boobs.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Of course I actually prefer smaller boobs. Do not overthink it.

Knightwatch27 · Answer

Fake boobs/butt is ugly anyway so don't even stress about "surgeries". There's nothing wrong with skinny.

jahaims · Answer

You can workout. You just don't know how to eat and lift.

Staximus · Answer

Why would you want to fuck up your body by getting surgery? Those fake asses look nasty

Cubus · Answer

If she had a good personality and a cute face - sure.

StevenMcGarrett · Answer

I like that look and so to a lot of other guys. You'll find someone to appreciate what you got.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, if she's my type of girl... no problem. I don't care about boobs, or butt, I'm a leg-man.

laryipels · Answer

yes i prefer short skinny girl that has a completely flat chest and flat butt. its so sexy

Anonymous · Answer

Skinny women with small boobs and bum are sexy as hell. Even if you could I don't think you should get surgery. And I don't see why you bring short is an issue.

TerrySilver · Answer

Slim is perfect. Not into small boobs though.

Twalli · Answer

I prefer that type, short, skinny, with small boobs and a small ass.

nawtee_me · Answer

I would indeed in fact I prefer them that way. A 32-34B cup is perfect to me….

Anonymous · Answer

Back in my "dating" years, this type of girl would have been a "dream come true" for me

Mikestein · Answer

don't mind short and skinny, but not definitely small boobs and probably not flat butt.

jjj101010 · Answer

Yes absolutely, or every guy wants a girl with a big ass and big boobs

Anonymous · Answer

Ahh I’m not like most guys cuz I’d rather have the skinny small boobs small butt type of girls

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

dated and married one

slatyb · Answer

Yes, I would. I've crushed on a couple.

RavVid · Answer

Skinny & short... sure would.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Isn't this the description of a petite woman

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

I'm in if she's hot

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like skinny anyone.

Mangospacho · Answer

That’s the literal definition of “fun size”

zagor · Answer

A lot of men like petite girls.

LiamS95 · Answer

Yes modt definetly

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

H**L to the NO!!!

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Absolutely. It depends on the whole package

bananathunder · Answer

sure... love me a petite girl ;)

BigSwingingBalls · Answer

just get a bit fat so you have some chub

abc3643 · Answer

I would have, yes.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes if we're compatible

Boobslover01 · Answer

Show pic.. only then I can say

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