Boyfriend texts other girls on a game?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend texts other girls on the white out survival game.
He shows me the text messages.
I can’t help but feel why he needs to respond to the messages, Im currently 3 months and 2 weeks pregnant.
Why do I feel it’s wrong even though he’s not flirting and shows me the messages.

[ohsheeT]

You have every right to feel the way you do. And if he is not wise enough to turn it around. And you are now playing a game talking to guys.

Guys have a way of making everything all about them and not looking at it any other way

[SecretsofKB]

Sounds like you feel jealous, right?

Is he messaging other guys too, or is it all women? If you feel uncomfortable with this, it may not hurt to talk to him about it. Now be careful here though, and try not to sound like you are demanding he stop. You can phrase it like you are unsure how you are feeling and see how he reacts from there.

[dustybiker2]

Do not crowd him. Tell him you trust him. He is with you and sharing the texts.

[Zack-Bann]

So you married him and got him to impregnate you and still feel “threatened” by random chick in an online game?
No clue what she looks like, no clue where in the world she lives. Basically an insignificant character in your lives.


You need to relax. You’re the prize and that hasn’t changed

[HighValue]

Does he also text other guys on those games too, or only girls? That makes a difference. Still, I think couples should establish boundaries of what is and isn't acceptable behavior in a relationship BEFORE getting married or living together.

Question: DO you text other guys online, or do you post any revealing pictures or the type showing your rear and making kissy faces online? Because that actually IS cheating and so many women do it they think it is acceptable. Just curious.

[WonderingManII]

My guess is He socializes while gaming. Probably did it before He got in a relationship with you, and probably sees no reason to change his habits. I think human instinct makes you feel like it's wrong. Our human natures are kinda messed up by the internet.

[Kaneki05]

Because women game and you can have women friends? And a lot of people like to game with others? Basic stuff really...

[bowenw]

Feeling jealous is a normal human emotion. Don't blame yourself for feeling that way. If he knows it bothers you that he texts girls within the game, he should stop.

[Tom567456]

It depends on what he's texting them. Is it flirty?

[RHK36]

Play the game with him or control your emotions

[loveslongnails]

I wish you the best of all worlds.

[jahaims]

You aren't stable