If you could choose, where would you like your first date with someone to be, or what kind of date would you like to have?

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D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I like doing something. Anyone that's actually listened to the sh@t I say on here already knows I think formal dressup shit is too gay and the formal aspect of a date is too rigid, non-organic, and doesn't allow for any real fun or connection. I briefly speed read one other opinion I liked... a fucking hike. This is why dating fat chicks is a bad idea.

If you could choose, where would you like your first date with someone to be, or what kind of date would you like to have?

I mean no wonder a culture that thinks sitting down to eat is the panicle of fun are mostly fat af. You fucking losers. Then usually the second choice being a fucking movies? What in the actual shit? You have to look like me if you're going to get jerked off in a movie theater... and then suck through completion. If you don't look like me and already have it in the bag, may I suggest that A FUCKING BOARD GAME, will get you closer to swapping bodily fluids.

So obviously I suggest doing something... do something fun. Eating is a chore most of us do just to keep going so that we don't die trying before we can come up with sewer slide plans. That was a little dark... but we can make sewer slides fun... just think about the Ninja Turtles. "Yeah! Fucking sewer slides!" Que the heros in the half shell music.

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I don't know... fucking roller blade or something even if you're a super cool skateboarder that thinks roller bladers are the gayest thing ever... she'll dig it. Plus I'll beat the shit out of you in a game of street hockey and you won't think it's so weak when you have missing teeth.

Let me transition this "get laid" energy to a time I made a best friend... a bromance. Japanese train station. Dude was bored so I said come hang with me. Drink Chu-hi's at the train station and try to get gum in the school girl's hair. Drink the drinks at the bottom of the stairs so you can see up their dresses. We had a good time.

It's the same shit with chicks just, maybe not as much trying to get Japanese school girls to have sexual relations with you on the hangout... but don't rule it out.

A potential partner is going to add something positive to your routine and dating isn't just you trying to get her... shit test that bitch. Take her fishing or some shit most chicks don't do. Force her to step out of her role as a mega strong woman that don't need no man, because bro... at a fucking dinner table getting served food... she's probably better than you. That's like challenging a chick to a cock suck off competition, she's going to win.

I once got laid by taking a chick to the park. We just sat on the bench and I started teaching her how to judge every mother fucker there. I observe their behavior and how they probably are at home type of shit. She loved it. No money was spent, we walked there, and I walked her back to her place and blew out her back. We almost got married but I did that to a lot of chicks at the time.

Just kinda read the date and why she's interested... then pick something appropriate. She wants danger? Give her a gun and a can of spray paint. We're going into gang territory and we're going to teach this chick how to tag so that we get two gangs to fight and probably kill each other. It's mega fun to watch it on the news. Show her how it's done... draw that line threw one gang's tag and then sign it with some insults and a fake gangster tag. I'll show her danger. Not joking the murders will be on the news for months and even years.

Now fuck off, I'm gonna jerk off and go to sleep.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I prefer doing something like a hike with some beautiful scenery at the end of it where we can setup a picnic. I'd just carry a picnic mat, some sandwiches, and some wine and water in a bag.

With that option, we can get to know each other in a beautiful environment.

Gwendoline · Accepted Answer

First date should always be simple like a coffee, an ice cream, milkshake or something like that or maybe a walk. Basically an introduction. It shouldn't be drinks, a dinner or anything else. 2nd or 3rd dates should probably be the same. Unless of course you've known the person for like ever then do whatever.

Think people have forgot the art of dating. I've talked to many women who won't go on a date unless serious money is spent on drinks and a meal at expensive clubs and restaurants or an expensive hotel. Whereas I think going to the fair, lazer tag, bowling, movies, line dancing, picnics, long drives or rides etc. Basically quality time together.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

I would love a beach date especially while the weather is cooler but not too cool that it starts to feel like Fall weather.

AviatorTom · Answer

Ideally, a first date is a romantic dinner in a quiet restaurant, where you talk, share food and stories about each other, followed by a romantic walk and ending with a kiss that builds to a passionate embrace.

TrimmedTip · Answer

Somewhere low-key but meaningful. Maybe a walk through a park, a cozy coffee shop, or a quiet dinner—somewhere we can actually talk and get to know each other without too much noise or pressure.

It’s not really about the place—it’s the vibe. Comfortable, honest, and real.

GetJinxed · Answer

My favorite first date was with my husband. I had a bad day and he took me out for coffee and we jammed to some of our favorite songs in his truck. He took me up to a spot in the mountains he liked to go to clear his head and let me shoot his gun. He told me to yell as loud as I could when I emptied the magazine. Oddly enough, It helped me feel better. He sat with me on the tailgate of his truck and we talked for hours until the sun went down. Then he built us a fire and we fell asleep together. Still makes me smile to think about it.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Skiing. Above the tree line. A room at the premium resort on the mountain. Roaring fireplace at the bar apres ski. Formal dining room for dinner. Breakfast with omelet and waffle stations. Tons of nightlife within walking distance. Outdoor hot tub for 50.

Zack-Bann · Answer

As a first date I would rather something simple
A drink (alcohol or otherwise)
Either at a bar, cafe, or in place with a view

It allows us to talk and get invested in one another

Activities are cool but you can’t talk during them so I leave them for later dates

Shiprex · Answer

It would depend on her and what her likes were. For example if she was into outdoors it would be to a beach side restaurant in Sai Kung Hong Kong but if she was a city slicker then perhaps somewhere in Rome or Naples. A bohemian type would be a place in Prague and an mellow type would be somewhere in Thailand

msc545 · Answer

I usually like a first date to be a dinner date at a nice seafood restaurant. Unfortunately, my favorite restaurant for this which was Moon shadows in Malibu, California burned down in the Palisades fire recently. There are a couple of other restaurants on the beach that I also like but Moonshadows was very special to me.

lorenzomichael · Answer

I’ve always too my first dates to the Observatory it’s cheap and we can walk around just talking getting to know one another and seeing some cool shit along the way then if that goes well I’ll either take her out to lunch, or maybe someplace were we can have a couple of drinks nothing to crazy. Depending on what time we started this first date.

Miristheiss · Answer

I always just liked someplace quiet where you can talk and get to know each other. Coffee, a cafe or bistro to get a bite to eat, maybe go out for dinner. After you have coffee or a bite, take a walk, maybe some live music.

Malemajor · Answer

Walk on a beach, lake, mountain or downtown Open air theater Comedy show and/or dinner in a remote low crowded town by the beach

Brittanyrunner06 · Answer

I love nature, so hiking a beautiful trail together would be perfect. It would give us time to talk and get to know each other better, and we’d get to explore a cool nature area, at the same time.

exitseven · Answer

something outdoors. Maybe grilling burgers on the tailgate of my truck while enjoying a day at the beach.

Nikki1989 · Answer

A nice dinner followed by live music. Choose your live music carefully because I'm likely to dislike you if I don't like your musical preferences.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I've seen first dates at bus stations, train stations, parks, cinema and bars, so... Right now  I would like to try airport please . It doesn't have to be a big one !

Staximus · Answer

If I could choose? Who else is going to choose? I'm not trying to fly to Europe for a first date, I'll take her somewhere local. Maybe a restaurant down by the beach so we can go on a fat walk afterwards

lilBigPotato · Answer

I like it if there's some kind of activity involved... If you just go for dinner and communication doesn't work out well, it's gonna be awkward

RingOfFire · Answer

Assuming the bedroom is ruled out 🤪 just joking... I would say a walk on the beach and dinner at a nice restaurant. There are some really nice beaches in my town.

HighValue · Answer

At an arcade and eat pizza after or in between gaming together. That would be ideal.

avery58 · Answer

Can't go wrong with a date to movies/arcade and a nice dinner

lyrem04 · Answer

Library! I show you all the books I’ve read and tell you all about them! 🥲

Caroline91 · Answer

A museum or art gallery..:. Or the zoo. And a picnic lunch.

Anonymous · Answer

If we have chemistry it could be McDonalds or a Walmart parking lot. If we don't, it could be the fanciest restaurant in the most romantic city in the world and it wouldn't help.

HelenaHandbasket · Answer

Since a first date is basically an introduction, I would not expect anything outrageous. Lunch is good, or coffee. Not a movie or concert. I want to get to know you.

beenherebefore · Answer

Dining at a nice restaurant if always my favorite type of date.

jazzy34 · Answer

Hmmm. I'd like to either go mini golfing or go to a movie. :)

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MOUTHWASHING · Answer

Beach date. And it would be awesome the to be more lenient in regards of clothing. I love topless girls in beach. it is very common in spain and croatia.

Surely · Answer

I usually start out with a direction. But am open to let spontaneity take over. Depending on location and what is happening at the time.

BLP11520 · Answer

Nice meal and a walk like window shopping or a peaceful event maybe an art show?

Anonymous · Answer

I'd like to have a date with the girl I like, wherever she wants.

queenofcardio · Answer

A fun activit.. I love going to the fair

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Bar or café in a nice city park.

cavedweller1973 · Answer

Movie and dinner and talking afterwards

Espreso9 · Answer

First Date a picnic in a park be fun.

WhiteThought · Answer

Depends on the girl

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