How would you feel if your 21yr old vulnerable daughter come in with a 52yr old recently single man who takes her out in his van and also works with?

[Leanne2406]

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9 mo

Should I be concerned as a friend to him

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9 mo

Thank you 🙏🏼

[Summeroflove]

Depends on the man honestly. Once my daughters are adults I want to hope I would always protect my sons and daughters and give them advice.

But once they’re adults. They have to make their own choices. I can do what I can to raise them to make good decisions but I can’t force them once they’re over 18. I just can’t

[ohsheeT]

Well your always going to be concerned but if she did not want to be there then she would not be there

If she didn't feel safe she wouldn't be there

[Jennz6]

I would tell her that he is too old for her

[Leanne2406]

I thought her family or friends would do that although I think they just say they’re good friends x

[Jennz6]

@Leanne2406
XXX

[Leanne2406]

@jennz6 thank you 😊

[Jennz6]

You’re welcome

[Anonymous]

[Aliceouyang]

To be honest, if it were my daughter, I would be very worried. There is a big gap between age and life experience, and she is fragile and may be at a disadvantage in the relationship.

[Anonymous]

I don't know for sure -- is she fleecing him for money? Is he a whale? LOL

[Leanne2406]

He has none!! I just needed to hear what other people thought. I definitely have my thought 🤢

[Opinion Owner]

That's a huge age gap. Hopefully it's just a passing phase for her and she won't have sex with him, but she best use protection if she does.

[Leanne2406]

Could it just be a father daughter thing?

[Leanne2406]

And thank you

[Opinion Owner]

It's possible. It's also that it's "forbidden" or considered risky, and that's exciting for her.

[SotiCoto]

Be very disappointed. But ultimately she can make her own stupid mistakes.

[Pterodon]

She can make her own choices but that also mean she will reap the reward or suffer the consequences

[MasterKS]

accept the reality she is adult now.