I’m a girl who grew up with no kind of male figure in my life. no brother, or father or anything like that. how can I make a guy like me?

[z0mbigirl]

I often get told I’m pretty and complimented for my appearance. I know that may seem shallow or bold, but I’m genuinely just confused. lots of guys will talk to me because they think I’m pretty but then leave shortly after and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
I feel like I’m simply just something pretty to look at, and I can never build any type of emotional or romantic relationship what can I do to make a guy genuinely love me for who I am and not just my face or body?

[ohsheeT]

Ok you just did the first thing you should do. And that is to acknowledge your dad was not in your life

Then you have to accept that.

Because your dreams your wishes and wanting to know with is was like to be daddy's little girl. And what that bond could have been like. ..

Maybe acknowledge , there's a void there , but you're gonna be okay

Understand that it had nothing to do with you. It was between your pand that's all there is to it

It was his choice not to be in your life.
Except it.. learn from it . Because there will be a time when you have children. And everything you didn't get. You will give

Now love yourself find yourself Because everything you have been through. Every emotion you have felt. And every day that you have needed or wanted someone anyone they for you. But no one was there for you. Except you. Has made you into the beautiful person you are today. Your not broken you never will be no matter what you go through. Know this you will make it.

Believe in yourself. Have no doubt who you are. And understand when you were born you were given a gift.

That gift is you get to choose who you want to be in life. By the things you say and do

Not what you been through.. that's to easy

But how you picked your self up and made it through it because you are you

Wipe away all the tears all the pain and realize you only have your self. I hate to tell you that but for the moment this moment you have to Except it.. I would rather talk to you one on one because I know what you have gone through. And more.

So much more

Anyway for this moment let it all go..

I really want to answer yourvquestion but there are so many thing that go with the question.. and I feel for you to understand it I have to tell you everything

You should just dm me but in a nut shell when your around a guy you like listen to his words. Look in to his eyes as you listen to his tone of voice when speaking

You just be you and let every thing fall in to place if a guy doesn't make it all about you give it a little time but if he can't do that think about walking away it means he's selfish in many ways.

When you meet a guy it doesn't matter you have had guys in your life because all guys are different you can tell who I guy is by the way he talks to people. Or if he talks about people

You are the boss of you. No one else. You make the rules no one else if you have sex. He must wear a condom. No matter what of he says he loves you but does not want to wear a condom. He lies. Because if a man love you he will protect you at all times. And when a guy comes in to your life. Never ever do something you don't want to do because your afraid your going to lose him. Never. And remember there are 5 billion guys out there if you aren't getting treated the way you need to be treated walk away. Alway be honest with the way you feel be true to yourself

[ohsheeT]

Ok, you need to just be yourself

If you try to make a guy like you, it's not real.. you want a guy to like you because you are you.

[Anonymous]

You've definitely got an uphill battle. Not having a male role model in your life has left you seeking male validation. But what you have to realize is men are human beings to. We want validation from women to. And whether you're realizing it or not, you're not giving them that... like at all. There are two ways women attract a man's attention. 1. THOT's do it every physical feature and women in thier arsenal. The drawback to this of course is it will not hold a guys attention. Once he figures out her game he becomes immune like the Borg. The second one, 2. She develops a personality. The center of this is of course having belief in herself. If you don't even believe you're interesting and worth talking to, how is he supposed to?

Of course mixed into ALL of this is, if you don't pick a worthwhile guy, all of it is for not. Yeah, I get it. He's real attractive! But you are one of 50 other women that's working for his attention, and he knows it. Try to keep that in mind. You want the cream of the crop, then you might just have to settle for being one of his 50 women.

[z0mbigirl]

Thank you, this really opened my eyes a little.😅

[Anonymous]

You can't make anyone do anything.

Find someone you like and be genuine. Ask them questions you actually want the answers to and listen.

People male or female like to be heard. Be kind. If they do not listen to you or return the kindness drop them and find someone who will.

[Chazmatazz269]

You can’t “make a guy like (you)”. Just be yourself and some people will like you; others will not. If you like a guy, tell him so. If he feels the same, you can find ways to get better acquainted. If not, move on. “There are plenty of fish in the sea.”

[Ask105]

Is better then being ugly ! You’re to young but if you actually are one woman thats 1 percent wants a good man then you need to to find your value and self worth and then sees who aligns with it there out there like me but the women don’t want that they exciting ment till their 40 and divorced once

[LuXtreme]

If you can't beat them, be like them.
A Tomboy girl. Dress and act like a dude, be tough and not over-emotional.

A TOMBOY. Search it up.

[slatyb]

You can't make a guy like you. When they talk to you, do you talk back? Do you have any interests in common with the guys around you?

[jahaims]

Read about the psychological development of females without male figures in childhood

[seeyounexttuesday]

I don't know. What are your hobbies and interests? What do you like doing? How are you at conversations?

[zombiewoof]

Learn to be comfortable being you

[Anonymous]

What does that have to do with anything?

[z0mbigirl]

Well I was always taught that guys like girls who are pretty. And that’s as far as u know about guys. So I try hard to keep up my physical appearance, but that’s as far as I go. I don’t know how to do anything else but sit there and look pretty. I want to know how to build a genuine relationship.

[z0mbigirl]

Sorry, I meant that’s as far as I know about guys not u. Misspell.