Are you the jealous type?

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I feel like I definitely can be.

John0986 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I imagine scenarios that make me crazy with jealousy

KostasKouvalis · Accepted Answer

Yes, extremely

HawkPerception · Answer

No. Not at all. But if your partner genuinely loves or cares about you at the very least, they would try to not ever make you feel jealous. I'm a believer in that no amount of jealousy is healthy in a relationship.

There is certain behaviour I don't tolerate. If my partner allows guys to flirt with her or flirts with them, she's fully conscious of what she's doing there.

I want a partner that has the desire to make me feel completely secure. A partner that doesn't hide her phone when messaging or taking it out. A partner that WANTS to tell me where she's going and who she's with. A partner that doesn't dress in skimpy skin tight outfits that show off all her figure. A partner that tells me if guys DM her with the intention of getting with her and doesn't message them back.

All of my partners have given me finger print access to their phone without me having to even ask them, and I've also given them fingerprint access to my phone. The funny thing is, we've never checked each others phones, because we built trust using every method. We've always told each other where we are and who we're with and when we change locations, we update each other. It doesn't take long to send a quick text.

It's beneficial to date like-minded people who also want to want to feel secure and practice the same kinds of dynamics to make you feel secure.

I don't play games. As soon as I see a girl being immature, I'm out. The way I see it, if a girl starts doing any of the things I've mentioned above, then that's fine. She can do it without me.

Finchie40 · Answer

No , but I’d be lying if I said I never been jealous, I use to get a little jealous when I was in some relationships with girls’ when I was younger , that pretty Much acted immature and selfish. And I hated it , until I realized what’s even the point? If a girl wants to be with me and cares about me , she isn’t going to do things to make me jealous or do things that would jeopardize are relationship , but if she does , then I realize she isn’t the girl for me period and I will dump her , if things don’t change after I express my feelings of concern to her. As I gotten older , and with all my experiences with girls’ jealousy doesn’t even phase me anymore, if she wants to be childish and immature and selfish , another guy can gladly take her off of my hands because she will mean absolutely nothing to me anymore , if she wants to act that way. Why I only date submissive girls’ that know how
To treat a man , that know how to be respectful and mature in relationships and that know what it means to be in a relationship. Once i eliminated non submissive girls’ out of the dating market , i been experiencing way better relationships with girls’ . I just love girls’ that look up to me and value and respect me , that can’t wait to be in my arms. That can’t wait to be kissed or to have sex with me. Intimacy and affection isn’t even an issue when I am with a submissive girl , it just naturally happens. Non submissive girls’ should chase after Simps instead , a guy that she can control and walk over that constantly kisses her ass, I like girls’ that give to me the same way I give to them , a girl that respects and appreciates being my partner. That’s a girl that I will keep by my side

ohsheeT · Answer

No i look at it like this if a person is with me there with me.. and if there not with me I will find out.

Everybgirl I have dated are beautiful there are goingbto be guys that look that even try to pick up on them.. but as with me I have to trust. And believe she will do the right thing.

I mean I can not stop it from happening if she allows it to happen.

But every girl that I have been with or dated knows that I am 100 percent loyal.
And I talk to girls demon because I do work for them

I've walk through malls before holding my girlfriends hand and I would see three guys walking towards us.

I would watch their eyes and I can see what they're looking up. And all I can do is smile. Because of course you're looking at a beautiful girl. So yes everyone is going to look.

They would pass by. I would look at her and she would look at me and just start laughing. Because. It's going to happen

And I would say those three guys have good taste lol

And I look at it like this if I was to get jealous every tone of my girlfriends was with somebody or talking to somebody

If I did not trust them, I would ask myself. Why am I with them.

Because to get jealous is something that hurts inside and for me it's not worth that. So I choose.
To believe in the person that I'm with and I'm not worried about it. If it happens, then that's what I'll do with it. But i'm not going to think about it happening when it hasn't happened

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

You have to define “jealous type”.
Everyone is capable of jealousy. It’s a perfectly normal human condition. If your significant other literally cheats on you and your response isn’t informed even fractionally by jealousy, you’re a frigging sociopath. Similarly, the woman who found in her husband’s wallet a picture of her younger, hotter self, accused him of cheating on her and stabbed him repeatedly trying to murder him… also a psychopath.
There is a normal, healthy amount of jealousy of which we’re all capable. Too much or too little is likely a sign of mental illness.
I have had my moments of both too much and too little jealousy. I believe that i learned from those experiences and improved accordingly.
I would not describe myself as “the jealous type”. I suspect an entitled cheater and someone who practices open relationships would suggest otherwise.

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes... and no.

Jealous in that things make me jealous. Not in that I would never complain, I would have just left.

I do not like my mate dressing sexy and going out to clubs, dressing skimpy, going out alone with male friends, wearing thongs or skimpy bikinis at the beach, going topless at the beach, flirting with men, posting sexy oics online, doing nude modeling... etc.

If a girl I were with did that I would just drop her on the spot. I chose women who shared my values.

Idiots stay and bitch and complain, get mad, argue.

Just leave. She isn't the one.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I voted yes, and I have reasons for voting that way.

If I set aside all my other opportunities and possibilities and I'm with someone who made me promise to do so and the deal is they'll do the same for me... yet they "flirt" with other options.

Yeah, fuck that. A deal is a deal and just because you want to keep enjoying being amongst other options while I keep my side of the deal... I have stronger words for that than "just jealous," as selfish bitches doing that shit say.

1) It is not fair

2) It is disrespectful

3) they're not keeping their end of the bargain.

4) they're going to eventually make me do the same, and they won't like it either. But they never think that far ahead do they?

PeachyPie93 · Answer

A bit.. I just don't like to be disrespected in my face..
If my guy makes another girl feel important in my presence, I will just ignore him for the remainder of the time there so he realizes he ain't shit while I enjoy other peoples company as well.

sage2021 · Answer

I am never jealous of anyone else and never have been.
I am happy for people when good things happen to them and I let them know.
My sister used to say that jealousy is a hate and we weren't raised to be jealous of people or to hate anyone.

Benjiman19 · Answer

Depends on the situation. If we're talking about while in a relationship, I definitely can be. However, just everyday life and whatever happens throughout it, no. I don't see myself getting jealous over anyone or anything.

queenofcardio · Answer

I can be depending on the situation. I wouldn't feel jealous if I felt security in my relationship

Caroline91 · Answer

Not particularly. But if we're giving each other reason to feel jealous, we need to take a look at our relationship and fix the problem.

jazzy34 · Answer

Nah. Wast of time, in my opinion. We never know what's going on behind closed doors with people. Why be jealous of a facade?

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not in the slightest. Life is too short for petty hang-ups.

Shiprex · Answer

I can't stick around if someone tries taht jealousy garbage. That's a sign they're manipulating the relationship for negative consequences.

katiesmuff · Answer

I think it is pretty natural to be somewhat jealous!

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nope. Go do what ya gotta do. I'll do the same.

SamWinchester058 · Answer

I used to be. Now I believe that if my spouse is doing something she knows I wouldn't appreciate, then she is doing me a favor by showing me who she is. Time to move on. There's always more fish in the sea if you have the right bait. 😁

LiamJHayden · Answer

I do not consider myself so, but others will. If she does something shady, I do not get angry. I just end it.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Within reason, yes. Someone inappropriately touching or filtering with my woman then yes otherwise no.

Anonymous · Answer

I can be from time to time, but there is nothing I can do about it anyway.

Babygirl_S · Answer

No, they have to FORCE like DESPERATELY to make me feel jealous.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Not at all. Too rational.

Amy10223 · Answer

I can be, yes. It's not fun.

MemeSupreme · Answer

yeah but i keep it in check lol

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like a jealous woman, but I love a possessive woman, especially if she's a dominatrix type :)

dudeinohio · Answer

A little bit sometimes.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Somewhat, there are limits...

nawtee_me · Answer

Nope, not at all

Jerre · Answer

Not jealous of anyone or anything

dragoblack · Answer

I'm the type to analyze with slight suspicion

BeechImFabulous · Answer

Yeah, I definitely am jealous.

CubaPirate · Answer

Definitely not

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Nope.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I can be

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Lmao. I’m the total opposite

Jennz6 · Answer

Not really

Neallyaa · Answer

Nope

HДLILБΞУ · Answer

Yes..

wkhan_87 · Answer

Occasionally

Skyros · Answer

Yes and it sucks.

Anonymous · Answer

At times

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