What makes you decide if you want to keep a person in your life or not? In any capacity, especially when you’re getting to know them?

[Anonymous]

Especially in a dating scenario, where you’re meeting or talking to multiple people at once, what makes you decide who you want to keep talking to or seeing and be friends with and for how long? At what point do you decide that this is not for me or that you both are not compatible and call it off? And most importantly, how do you communicate that to the other person or do you just ghost or block them and hope they get the message?

[Ask105]

I dont know even talk to women anymore on the phone its either in person we schedule or thats it i refuse to let a woman go back in forth like she's a playful detective on text happened twice and its over ! also i accepted every women to ghost me now it made me emotional detached from them i think you you should just say especially if they have your number i don't think it would work between us i had a woman ghost me recently really no reason real reason like most situations and i just texted her i knew you would do this but if you want to be in my life next time you reach out its for a date and then i deleted her number and convo i left the door open because sometimes people do get busy but im not gonna wait on her To many women ruined that for her and it’s common thing talking to my guy friends or women go hot and cold

[Anonymous]

It's the way the make me feel. I want to be with someone who makes me feel a certain way. I don't really ever talk or pursue multiple people. I only would pursue a girl for the potential of marriage. I really struggle with the way people communicate now. I much prefer talking in person or over the phone, but I am flexible for the right person. If I were to end something with someone, I would be better direct and tell them. I've been ghosted before, and it only made the situation worse.

[Amy10223]

Someone respectful, who likes me as a person, who is interesting, funny, and not MAGA.

[Anonymous]

I was a good religious girl , he was a retired player. I chose to ignore him

[Asker]

How do you know he was a retired player? Although I’m sure you made a good decision

[Opinion Owner]

U can know it in a guys personality. Some guys just don’t have loyalty Im them

[Asker]

True, irrespective of what they claim to be

[ohsheeT]

For me im only going to give my time to one person at a time.. we would know the very first time we said hello. If we were going to see each other again

If I find you good looking smart wise.. if your cute if you have confidence if you're romantic passionate if you can speak with your eyes if you like to touch hold kiss become one.. we would know right there in that moment that we like being with each other.

[Anonymous]

I'm not like that. And frankly I don't get people who are. It sounds like narcissism to me. Now I might need to cut someone out of my life. But that's not abandoning someone. That usually stems from them or the relationship being toxic. It needed to happen if not for my sake, the both of ours.

[Danny_dan92]

If they’re shit? Goodbye

[Asker]

How do you define that? Like what makes them shit?

[Danny_dan92]

Being a shitty person.

[Pterodon]

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