I’m 25 and I’ve never been in love. How do you know if what you’re feeling is love?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been asked out on dates before and have been on some. Had a few crushes and flings, but things don’t progress beyond a certain point. I guess after my first real crush, I’ve never liked anyone as much ever again. Is this normal? I don't know it just feels like love is not for me, even though I really want to experience it.

[ohsheeT]

That progress is inside of you. This is where we all mess up.. the first person your with is all brand new the excitement of kissing touching. Making love. Is so beautiful. And all those feeling and emotion. People mistake all the above as love true love. It's not. What you experience is 2 people becoming 1. two energies becoming one it's the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel. And after that moment you go into an out of body experience. That is just as good or better than the sex you just had its one of the deepest is spiritual highs you will feel until the next level.

This is what sex is all about

To teach us where we are suppose to learn to help us understand becoming one with self one with others and one with his universe

What you felt and many other feel the first time or sometime is not love we dont know each oth we dont even have to touch and I can give you that same feeling or even deep just by charging or role playing.

You might close your eyes right now and feel a slow deep kiss from your lips to your neck I slow slow motion

So if you do that for a min can you feel it.. its called energy two energy's becoming one

When you can do this when you feel it its you when you love yourself and then become one with some one you start understanding real love once you do that then you will start to feel love with every thing you do and that's when life changes and you change with in

[Shiprex]

Love needs to be nurtured in many cases. Like a slow burn for some and when it lights it can be long burning and not up in a flash right away.

Curious, engaged and positive attitude towards wanting to build with something can be a winning formula for people who seek a long term loving connection.

[Paige90]

If there was a choice between you dying or him dying you would die instead of him. Otherwise, it isn't love.

[Asker]

That’s deep. Shows the gravity of your affection for him.

[Paige90]

I think being in love with someone takes a long time and both of you have to go through peaks and valleys. The only time I believe in love at first site is between a mother/father and their child.

[Asker]

Have to agree with you on that. I’d like to think the same

[glennos89]

We all have that 1 person we loved more then any others afterwards (usually our first one).

Real love is something else then being in love with someone! Real love can only exist once you have been together with someone for a longer period of time and it's something that grows slowly overtime

[exitseven]

It's love when bad things happen and you do not head for the exit.

[DryGermanGuy]

"No one can tell you you're in love, you just know it. Through and through. Balls to bones."

- The Oracle, The Matrix

[Anonymous]

I'm in very similar situation. My first real crush still towers over anyone else. I wouldn't even describe her as a crush at this point.

[Anonymous]

If it's not love they'll tell you hun don't worry.😆