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I recently matched with a guy on tinder and we agreed on hooking up which we planned for tomorrow night, he’s coming to pick me up and take me over to his house (20-25 min drive), nothing seems off about him but there’s still a lingering feeling of safety since I’ll be pretty far from my apartment or anyone else that I know.
It’s not so much that I fear it, it’s more like a random thought that pops up as time gets nearer, or maybe it’s cause I was watch a thriller movie…

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

As a guy that's done this with many women a lot of times, trust your gut if something is off. Use one of those location trackers on your cellphone..."Find My" for instance if you have apple... I don't do it with my android... I have a lot of phones. Have a friend watch you.

Make sure you tell someone where you're going. It's not like you have to say "I'm going to go fuck this guy because he has abs and a big cock." Just tell them you're going on a dinner date where he's going to cook for you at his place. Give yourself ways out if you change your mind.

If something is off, then it's off so trust your gut. I myself prefer to have a meet and greet first so I can check vibes. Something like just meeting at the store... I tell them to give me a hug if they're truly interested and then we part ways. That protects them and it protects me from catfishing fat chicks that use old ass pictures.

As another user stated... it could be a serial killer for all you know. Or, it could be someone like me that's just horny, my wife takes me for granted despite the fact that I hit the weights and get girl attention like crazy... and I just need the ego boost and to bust about 8 nutts like crazy. Most of the chicks that go for me are usually taken themselves and need the exact same thing in exchange or they're in school, busy with a career, really horny for a guy like me, or just want to try it... I imagine you're just like what I get. So guys like me are just going to be a good time with an easy out when you don't need it anymore, but those other guys do exist. They set that shit up like a trap and their motivations go far beyond just being horny and needing an ego boost.

I wish you luck, because you're obviously locked into doing it. Make him eat your pussy.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Ok so it could be because of the movie you watched. .. but there still is a reason it came to you and you have to listen to yourself... we are made of energy. It lives with in us. It is the God with in you. It is the spiritual u. And when it talks you must listen. Because its real. It's your teacher your guide. It could be telling you. Ok your going von and un known date its good to pay attention.. then when you said you will be so many miles a way from home. That's telling me. You need to change something so your closer. In your own surroundings.

Look we all know the answer to every thing before it happens. But we need to to know ourselves reall good to get that answer.

The reason you asked this question. And used the words you did. Is because you are listing to your self

First. Your talking to yourself. As a question. And then maybe something still feels off. So now you ask a question. And all the answers you get from it will tell you something else. Then it paints a bigger picture for you

Im going to read the answer you have received to see if they tell me anything. I mean I already feel something but... just because I think or feel something doesn't mean I right.

It just means there's more to it

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Well that sort of thing is unlikely.. I only met a guy once at 2am because I wanted him to kill me.. I turned off my phone and didn't tell anyone where I was going. Sadly for me he didn't.. He snuck me into his parents house and we talked and kissed a bit and then he got mad at me cuz I didn't have sex with him, we laid there for a bit until his boner went down and then he drove me home lol.
Be brave either way it doesn't matter.. tho I got to say using a dildo is always way better than letting a loser guy use your body..

Malemajor · Answer

LOL! You meet in public spot anyone even if you are chatting/texting/talking and shared a lot. It's basics of meeting other Humans in current world 101!

Why don't you go out on a fun avtivity that you both like? Like walking ij downtown or beach, play a sport, open mic, dance floor or little more intimate public activities like a dance social, movie or dinner in a cozy restaurant? Directly to his home on first meet is a bit insane IMHO. Again I'm from indus valley culture and born in 80s, so 🤷‍♂️

Alex-Snow · Answer

Are you just meeting for a hookup or also a date? First of all bring a lot of condoms with you? Maybe let a friend know the guys address or ask him to text you a picture of his drivers license and send it to friend. Good idea on being careful! Mybe also check his socials and see if anything is weird. Is he ur age?

Ask105 · Answer

Why dont you get a uber to the date area and back or have a friend drop you off? Then

Clear_Skies10 · Answer

The things you women will do to get some dick is crazy. He could be a serial killer.

onedarkcloud · Answer

Well, you could listen to your inner voice or let a couple of friends know where you are going, give a name, and if you can, send a picture of your car and plate number to friends

qwerty2469 · Answer

Tell him to let you take a picture of his license and send it to 3 or 4 of your friends. If he planned on hurting you he will not now. There would be no way he could get away with it.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Are you sure you want to do this?

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Don't go with him, call him at your house

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