For those of you who have not be interested in most of people if not all of the people who were interested in you, would you chalk it up to bad luck?

[Anonymous]

This is assuming that most of the people who were interested in you where interested because of your looks first and foremost

Yes

No, I think it means I'm probably just above average but not exceptional looking

No, I think that's a staple of being average looking

No, I think everyone can say that, because there's more people who aren't attractive in the world than there are attractive people

Updates

10 mo

Been interested

[Anonymous]

This is what I always find amusing about this site. We all know unless you're a complete beast of a woman you can get a guy. The same cannot be said of a guy.

You'll see woman after woman post questions on here about how they can't get any guy. Then about 3 paragraphs down in her NOVEL of a question she let's it slip, "I cannot get a guy I'm interested in" (that she finds attractive, whether she is on his level or not). And there it is. Finally the truth comes out.😆

Most guys want to be with an attractive woman. And if he can't he'd rather remain single.

So have I had my many opportunities. Yeah, kinda. I only say "kinda" because most women (ugly or not) still want the guy to pursue them. And how likely is it a guy is going to pursue and ugly girl. And even if she isn't ugly, how many decent looking girls are going to show a guy very deep interest? Not many.

This is primarily what's broken with dating anymore. Women want men to pursue them for absolutely no other reason than they have a vagina. Well what kind of man do they really think that's going to attract.😆

They don't divulge enough about themselves for fear of judgement but they still want to be pursued. And to make matters worse most ONLY want to be pursued. They only want the BEST guy as one woman has said on here, "an avg. Guy like Chris Hemsworth (Thor).😆 How can you do anything but laugh at the sheer delusion. I'd like Scarlet Johansson. But in what world is that remotely possible.😆 this is the difference between men and women. We'd like, but we're realistic.

So me, I've had my opportunities. They weren't great but they were there. Certainly not worth devoting my life to. And I'm not going to waste a woman's time I'm not serious about (another thing that sets men apart from women).

Now I just like to sit back an enjoy watching the 💩 show that is today's dating. I'm pretty certain I'm single from here on out.👍

[SueShe]

All those people that have shown interest have solely done it to get rid of their testosterone levels. I am not interested in fornicating and thus, I do systematically reject those unwanted approaches.

I have set my goals in life and those goals don't involve anyone getting into my pants. I don't want to divert my attention from my studies as those have top priority. Once (and if) I get my degree and have worked 20+ years in the field of my studies, then it may be time to reconsider but certainly not before.

That is the price to pay for wanting to be dedicated.

[Anonymous]

Luck has very little to do with anything.

[Asker]

So what are some reasons as to why you think this happens to some people?