Do you think that confidence is the most important thing when it comes to dating?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Love is you have to love yourself to have. confidence. There are many people out there that exaggerate their confidence. But it doesn't matter if you're dating or what you're doing end life. You have to believe in yourself. You order to love anybody else.
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[Anonymous]

No. Don't get me wrong it is important. And it does play a part in the most important thing which I am now going to say.

The most important thing is being attractive to that person because you're like-minded people And that is determined in many ways based on who you are and the person you're talking to.

Like me for example I've learned over the years most women are not immediately attracted to me. They get to know me, I grow on them (like a fungus😂) then they want to date me. Most of them end up asking me out.

If a woman looks for some guy who's a ball of fire, that beats his chest, and tries to convince her he's the alpha male of alpha males. Well then I'll never even be on her radar. Understand? And that's best for both of us. Because we're not the same type of people and would not match anyhow.

I would say worry LESS about what guys want and worry MORE about knowing who YOU are and knowing your boundaries. And then just be open and patient. Life and happiness is a marathon, not a sprint.

[Pumpkinpie222]

Confidence but not arrogance. It’s about knowing who you are and owning it. That’s attractive. If you know who you are then you allow other people to be who they are- you aren’t so worried about adapting or changing to suit the other person. That work on yourself has been done so now you can focus on other people and things.

[BeeNee]

I think confidence can definitely get you in the door, but it won't hold up if there is nothing behind it like respect, care, kindness, manners, etc.

[DishLady]

No. Confidence can come from an inflated ego, which is no good. Empathy and clarity are more important.

[HawkPerception]

It's ONE of the most important things in finding a partner. Definitely not the most important in keeping them.

[MrOracle]

It's quite important for men, and not nearly as much for women, though it's often a bit of a factor.

[Summeroflove]

No it’s genuineness is more important. Confidence can be faked.

[OneViewpoint]

I think confidence is AN important thing. But there's also...

• Social skills
• Style
• Grooming
• Manners
• IQ
• Empathy
• Patience
• Curiosity
• A sense of fun
• Physical attraction
• Personality compatibility

[Pumpkinpie222]

Excellent list. Agreed.

[OneViewpoint]

@Pumpkinpie222 ,

Thanks!

[slatyb]

In a way. Confidence in ourselves is what allows us to focus on others. I divorced in my thirties and started dating, but with a higher sense of my value (confidence). Since I didn't worry about pleasing every woman I met, I was able to be present in the moment and truly listen. For many of them, this was a new experience, particularly when we became intimate.

[Jersey2]

No. I don’t care about that in a woman.

And for women who say that is paramount they can be tricked very easily. So many end up pregnant with losers that talked a big game but can’t deliver. Women suck at picking mates, so says the high divorce rate with females filing 70%+ of them.

[Anonymous]

no because confidence is entirely subjective depending on how you look and portray yourself as a first impression

if you're hot or sexy and confident, then you're brave and charming

if you're ugly or disgusting but confident, then you're arrogant and creepy

[AvaRay]

Not so important thing in a relationship but it's help to boost your attractiveness level in front of your mate / potential mate for your 1st impression..

[purplepoppy]

No. It's having something the other person wants. The question is how do you enrich and improve their life. When people tell you "confidence" its just a polite way of saying you've nothing to offer.

[Anonymous]

I don't believe that confidence is that important, cool stuff yeah but not more.

Mental flexibility is much more important to me, cause dating (or anything involving people) would look incomprehensible otherwise

[Caroline91]

I think true kindness and a desire to get to really know someone are the most important things when dating.

[Berethor]

Not for women, men like shy virgin women, and men usually are doing everything in dating.

[Ironco]

It can help when it makes you feel good about yourself.

I just try to be myself and keep her happy and engaged in our conversations. Let things flow naturally. When it works out, great. If not, at least you tried and can move on.

[capriVib]

For a man, confidence is definitely the most important thing. %💯 ✍️

[mysteriousNicholas]

Personality and looks are equally highly important 🙂😋😋😋

[beaves11]

Physical attraction,


If it’s not there nothing overcomes that.

[jazzy34]

It's not THE most important thing, but it's definitely important.

[Nikki1989]

If it is not number one, it is an easy second.

[msc545]

No for men money, height and looks are the most important things. Every man knows this. Women, of course will never admit to any of this.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Far more important things are like respect, understanding, compatibility, love, humor, compassion and support etc

[AngryCarl2]

I think being attractive is more important. Confidence comes from being successful.

[lorenzomichael]

Not just for dating but it’s good all around for you to have confidence in anything that you do.

[Anonymous]

No, the most important thing is to be rich, and/or handsome.

Otherwise, it's very difficult to start dating.

[Opinion Owner]

For a girl, it's important to be self-confident, if she is hot. I definitely don't like shy girls.

[Pohjolan]

Nah in the time of online dating looks is the most important factor.

[Slim57]

I think whatever you think is the most important thing in dating, because everyone has different answers about it

[stayorgo]

Unfortunately.
It appears that way. That's what all the ladies have been saying lately

[EmmaMary]

Absolutely, along with being assertive.

[Greek_goddess_Iris]

Very important, but not most important.

[WhitneySnow]

It’s up there

[exitseven]

No but it can help if you have it

[CinnamonToesC]

Confidence, kindness and self awareness.

[Alex-Snow]

I think having fun is the most important thing

[pragatimonga]

I feel it is important

[Panthero80]

Not more than loyalty.

[robocop666]

Owen Cook teaches this. He is a genius.

[Ask105]

Seems to be

[InknKink]

Yes.

[jahaims]

No, maturity is

[McSteamy]

Yes.. for a starter

[Xalooo]

Yes.

[MasterKS]

Yes it is.