Ok so there's this man I have a crush on we are both kinda nerdy I've decided to give him a coded message with flowers but?

[lucyvoid]

I'm having a hard time deciding what the message should say like what should it mean when it's dcoded I don't want it to be anything to crazy like unrequited love or anything but any ideas?

[HawkPerception]

Being direct is much better. This roundabout method isn't even guaranteed to make him understand your intentions. Guys prefer you just approach and tell them.

[lucyvoid]

I'm not trying to ask him out with the flowers

[purplepoppy]

Men don't read meaning into things. Flowers are flowers, thats it. Some code you found online about yellow roses meaning one thing and white carnations another means nothing to him.

[lucyvoid]

Um I'm actually gifting him a book on the codes of flowers the Victorians used to use

[purplepoppy]

He's gonna run a mile

[lucyvoid]

I don't think so he seems to enjoy my company anyway

[Nikki1989]

Why play these childish games? Say what you want from him.

[lucyvoid]

I'm not trying to ask him out or anything he's just a smart man and I admire his brain so I thought this would be kinda a fun game I'm not trying to confess my undying love or anything

[ilistengood]

Hmmm roses are red violets are blue
Your very sexy , hope I am too.


Might need some polish

[slatyb]

Just ask him out directly.

[lucyvoid]

I'm not trying to ask him out right now he's a very timid man and I want us to be a bit closer before I try and ask that

[slatyb]

It would be weird to give him flowers -- he will be even more confused. Just ask him.