Dating after divorce?

[Pumpkinpie222]

How? Apps? Any advice?

[HighValue]

Expect low quality people only. Your best bet would be a single father that doesn't want more kids and you need to expect to contribute equally. It may be a surprise depending on how young you were married, but at your age, there will be significantly less interest, especially from any quality men.

[Pumpkinpie222]

And why would there be less interest? You sound bitter.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I thought dating would suck when I divorced at 50. I worked on myself a lot and when I started dating again it was so easy. Divorced middle aged people suck so even being half way decent makes you a good catch. Really good people don't stay single long

[Pumpkinpie222]

Well that’s positive. Thank you!

[On_cloud_wine]

Work at a restaurant. You’ll find the most beautiful people… creative, nurdy, ocd in just the right way, narcissistic bit witty and smart and compassionate enough.. date a chef. Just saying I don't know 🤷

[PeachyPie93]

No idea.. I'm personally scared to try it again.

[ohsheeT]

Yes first of all take the word date out of the question out of the sentence. It two people two friends to strangers fittingly know each oth. Experiencing each other

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Depends on what you're looking for.

Like maybe you just want someone to go to restaurants with. Or maybe you want to get married again. Or maybe you want a f**kbuddy. Or maybe you want a deep emotional connection but not a marriage.

You have to find someone who wants the same things you want.

[Clear_Skies10]

It's all so random that anything can happen. Good luck.

[mysteriousNicholas]

At 46, better to stay single and enjoy that future retirement money all to yourself for yourself 🥰 self love. Or some to good causes / reg charities

[Pumpkinpie222]

That’s sort of depressing. Because I’m 46 I’m not going to find another partner? Life isn’t all about money.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Pumpkinpie22 I was expressing my humble personal opinion that *I* would be (and I'm already) single and staying single leaves more time for me me me as much as for me to have the flexibility and such to give back to society, charitable work, etc 💡 you've gotta look at the whole picture benefits good lady 😋 you take care now and read others views - let's not put my view on a pedestal trophy 🏆 - I'm just one guy, one opinion - I know my opinion is my own 😁

[mysteriousNicholas]

You take care now. I'll be unrelatedly deleting from GAG soon, it's grown quiet and less active folks here 🥳💡

[Chazmatazz269]

Don’t bother. People suck.

[Pumpkinpie222]

Oh dear

[Anonymous]

Yeah. After 40 you got an uphill battle sister. If you're not willing to concede a bit you probably shouldn't bother.

[Pumpkinpie222]

Concede? How?

[dudeinohio]

I used apps. Just get back out there.

[msc545]

Not apps!

[scott04sa22]

No apps

[Anonymous]

Nope