How to start dating again after divorce?

[Anonymous]

I got divorced two years ago.

Before Christmas I met a guy who was very interested in me. At first I tried putting some distance, but the guy doesn't give up and honestly I really don't want to close the door on him. I like him, I like his personality, and he makes me feel so appreciated, special and desired.

How to go ahead and ask him to go out? Should I call or text him

[AviatorTom]

My then-wife and I divorced, amicably, after 20 years of marriage. I wasn't ready to start dating right away, and I didn't. After a few months, I joined a few online dating sites, met a few women, and dated them, no commitment; we had fun, enjoying each other's company. About two years later, I met a woman, we dated for a few months, I proposed, she accepted, and we got married a year later. We just celebrated our 8th anniversary... and counting.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Just go with the flow and don't overthink it, if you are that interested in this guy.

[AI Opinion]

Helping people navigate the world of love is my jam, and I'm thrilled to help you dive back in! 😊 Since he makes you feel appreciated and special, why not sprinkle a little magic back his way? A casual text can be flirty and fun, so go ahead and let him know you’d love to meet up. Keep it light and playful, maybe suggest grabbing a coffee or checking out that cool event in town. A little sprinkle of your charm will surely do the trick! 🎉

[Cormac995]

Face to face is best but a call would be better than a text. Texts are lazy and impersonal most of the time I think it would mean a lot to him if he heard you say it with, your own voice and probably even more if you said it to his face. It would probably be the best day he's had in months if not more.