Relationship after Divorce?

[Anonymous]

I had a divorce and there is a divorced guy who is my brother's friend. He keeps on following me wherever I go. I don't understand what should I do. I mean I can't initiate because of my horrible experience. Should I be friends with him or wait for him to take the first move... I don't wanna rush things but he is following me since 3 months and now I feel like I'm healing after 7months... What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Stapler huge red flag!

Please don't attempt to be friends this guy only wants into your single mommy pants!

He might attempt to be nice but when you make it clear you don't want sex... He will change!

Make friends and be sure to have him stop following you every where!

Have. Healthy relationship before jumping into another divorced relationship with huge bags dragging you both down!

[Asker]

He even had a worse experience with his ex.. she left him

[Asker]

Years ago

[Opinion Owner]

Then don't pick up that baggage!
Imagine how clingy he will get stalking your GPS always needing to know where I are

[Asker]

Stop assuming... he was innocent I've heard his story everyone knows how that woman is... Not every woman is good if she left... She can't even handle a single fight after marriage and left... he was abroad at that time, and he even called her 50 times and begged her but she won't listen... Sometimes the man is good... He might be acting like this cuz my brother told him so that I could notice him... That's why I'm asking your opinions..

[Opinion Owner]

What? Maybe that was for another comment?
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I'm saying be healthy before a relationship don't just jump in!

[molonski2]

You should do NOTHING , just wait and see , no rush Sabai Sabai , be careful.

[rosemilk]

do you want a relationship? doesn't seem like it, if this dude wasn't around you'd probably not be thinking about a relationship and continue healing. which, yes, continue healing

[Asker]

I think I have healed cuz i don't want to waste my time thinking about that narcissist who punched me... He simply doesn't care 😭... I am working on myself and my studies... But I think that after my horrible experience of arranged marriage, i should consider him and try to know him to make it a love marriage ✨

[DeeDeeDeVour]

If you honestly don't feel ready to get into another relationship yet, stay away.

[Enes38]

Do whatever you feel like.

[Asker]

Can you please elaborate 🤔

[Enes38]

So if you want to give him a chance, give him a chance. Otherwise, don't get confused just because he's after you all the time. Just reject him and let it be over with.