How would you react if you found out your girlfriend used to be a hoe?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my girlfriend Becky for a long time. I think I love her and I really enjoy spending time with her. However, she’s recently shared her ugly past with me. When she was in her younger years she had a rep of sleeping around.

She apparently was the school slut who got tagged teamed by the jocks. Becky even told me about how when she was 15 and had fuck buddies in their 30’s. And how when she was in university she dated 3 guys at once and caught chlamydia and gonorrhoea twice. Even used Only Fans to pay for school.

Even worse, she supposedly slept with other men when she was married. Her excuse was that her and her husband broke up and stayed married so he wouldn’t get deported.

After knowing all this I’m starting to look at her differently. Sometimes I see Becky the same way I see the woman in the picture. But it’s hard to leave Becky because she is trying really hard to make this relationship work. I’m a low value man with no proper education and job, and she makes feel like a high value man with the way she treats me. She really wants us to get married and keeps telling her friends Im gonna but her a ring. But it’s a tough decision for me.

She wants to meet my parents and I know they’re not gonna like her at all. My parents are and have always people skills. They can pick up on things.

The other day beck told me she’s having suicidal thoughts and being with helps her not think suicidal. She’s undergoing therapy atm.

I’d dump her

I’d look past it

[RavVid]

Neither option. Just keep pumping her whilst waiting for someone else to come along and never marry her.

So she has just spilt her dirt only recently after being in a relationship for quite some time. It is called lying by omission to have hidden all her shit from you till now. Letting you bond with her then dump the dirt.

I hope you can see how unsatisfactory she is. It is OK to keep fucking her but under no circumstances marry her. No man should marry her. Don't believe the "I've changed" line. Any change is only temporary with hoes.

You can see that with her husband. She had the power position so she exploited it to fuck other men. Your morals are probably you don't cheat and you will assume she is the same. Truth is she would probably do it for money if she is a bit short because she is a prostitute not a hoe

Keep yourself safe from her.

[ohsheeT]

I'm sure I would know it before we became girlfriend and boyfriend


But if I loved her it wouldn't change your thing

I have done some crazy things in my Li. Think everybody is done some crazy things.
And if you've done one crazy thing that others i think. About moral values and ethics and then you have judgment.
And then you have have hypocrite. this moment in time. Who is she now or even who is he i. n this moment. If you are totally in love before you found out, why wouldn't you be still? Is there change somehow or there judgment? Somehow? Who is she at this day? This moment in time That's what counts

[avery58]

I think she should focus on therapy first and foremost if she is having suicidal thoughts

[Nikki1989]

I don't waste time on insecure, immature men.

[AviatorTom]

I'd be surprised, and we would have a talk about it. But if it's truly "used to be a hoe", and she was now committed to me and to us, I'd leave it in the past and make our relationship the best it can be.

[Miristheiss]

Easy, I'd dump her. Really, any girl 25 or older has probably been pretty promiscuous.

Women used to get married and start families with their husbands. They'd marry at 18 to 21. Do you think these modern women on birth control and dating apps who are 25 or 30 haven't been screwing like crazy for 10-15 years?

You should have known that by her age. You list yourself as 35-45 so I assume she is a similar age.

[Likes2drive]

Maybe look past it if she doesn’t have any sexual diseases left over from it and depending on her mental health, you could see how it goes since she finally admitted to everything that means that she trust you and cares for you quite a bit , she’s probably disgusted with her past also and trying to change her ways

[Anonymous]

The odds of this happening are slim to none. Because I have STRINGENT standards when it comes to women. I respect myself, ergo I would never allow a woman to disrespect me.

This woman was always this woman. A leopard does not change thier spots. The signs were always there. You either think you don't deserve better than her. Or you don't know the difference between how a quality woman acts vs. a hoe.

Learn from this my man.👍

[tulgablake]

confront her and see if she's willing to change , then good and also love matters and conquers all , everyone has a bad past

[Ariesman81]

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