Whats max number of dates you would take a woman out on w/out having sex?

[Vegasrunner]

[Zack-Bann]

0.5
It usually happens on the first date or somehow the feeling fizzles out


That being said I waited a month and a half of constant dating before having sex with a girl who then became my girlfriend


I suppose it depends on the person and the type of chemistry we have


It’s rare to form a mental connection without a physical one


Most girls end up sleeping with me early and within a week are giving me puppy eyes and saying “I’m starting to fall in love with you”


The unfortunate reality is that I usually have a hard time reciprocating these feelings
But that’s due to me being somewhat emotionally repressed (it’s a work in progress)

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann So if it doesn't happen in the middle of the first date, you end the date?

[Zack-Bann]

No it’s not smack down the middle

But if doesn’t happen and the date ends usually when we text later she will tell me “we had fun but it’s best not pursue it further”

The reason for that is because I don’t play it too safe on dates

I respect a girl’s boundaries and wishes but I also make it clear I’m interested in her

Otherwise I end up in a friendzone for months on end and that’s a sad place to be

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann Gotcha. That's a solid strategy.

[OneViewpoint]

It really depends on the woman and the situation. But at some point I'd ask her what we're doing and tell her if she wants to be a she-bro, that's fine but start digging in her wallet from now on.

And to be honest, sex drive in a woman is something I'm paying attention to from the start. I was in a sexless marriage with a "Good Catholic Girl" completely fucked in the head when it came to sex and pretty much asexual. I learned to take care of myself outside the marriage. I'm not doing that again. If there's nothing there and she's too polite to say it or, she has all sorts of hang ups and rules about sex, she's gone. If she has low sex drive I don't care if it's a mental thing or baggage from the past or some hormonal imbalance. I'm gone. I could care less about the cost of dinner. I won't settle for half a relationship and zero intimacy again. That's a she-bro. They pay their own way and get treated like the rest of the guys.

[Anonymous]

My husband dated for nearly 18 months. Probably had well over 360 dates. Af what stage are you no longer dating? We just spent a lot of time together going on walks, hikes, getting ice cream, coffee, picnics, laser tag, crazy golf, bowling, darts, clubbing, the fair, amusement parks, Sunday dinner, tennis, swimming, spas, gym, sports games, line dancing, bars, church groups you name it.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Your husband went on 360 dates with you w/out having sex?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes we enjoyed spending time together.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner How old was he when you started dating?

[Opinion Owner]

He was 26.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner What does he do for a living?

[Opinion Owner]

he's an electrical engineer.

[ohsheeT]

You can't put a set number on this. Everybody's different.

But I can tell you this right now. I can tell you from your question that his problem is not gonna happen the way you think it should or the way that you worded your question

[Vegasrunner]

@ohsheeT TY for your response. What does this have to do with the question asked?

[Alex-Snow]

There is no magic number. It would depend on the chemistry, and how well we are getting along. If I think the sex is worth waiting for I'd wit a bit longer

[Vegasrunner]

@Alex-Snow The question ask how long.

[Alex-Snow]

It would depend on how long it has been since I last had sex and if I liked her. Probably a month at most

[soe11]

• All depending upon person to to person.

[Vegasrunner]

@soe11 You would be the person.

[dudeinohio]

Two. There needs to be sex on no later than the third date. If not. No 4th date.

[Vegasrunner]

@dudeinohio That's my philosophy as well, however 3 is my max.

[dudeinohio]

Three strikes rule.

[WonderingManII]

20, I think

[Vegasrunner]

@wonderingmanii You paid to see a woman 20 times w/out sex?

[WonderingManII]

I'm not going to pay a woman to take her out on date.

[Screenwriter]

I think that person means, you paid for 20 dates...

[Screenwriter]

Well, 20 dates is a lot of dates. But you sure would know the person fairly well before getting into that aspect of a relationship. Maybe 2 to 5 months. That's a pretty safe space. .

[Vegasrunner]

@Screenwriter Waste of time to spend that much time and resources on a woman not providing anything reciprocal.