Guys, if a girl loves her dad like her best friend and chooses him over you would it be ok with you?

[mrshooiser]

[Finchie40]

Only if she wasn’t my wife , but just a girlfriend , I would be fine with it. There is nothing wrong with a partner being close to their parent or parents’ , it’s only wrong if they allow their parents’ to control their lives for a relationship to last and for love to grow between 2 people , those 2 people should be making each other their top priority over everyone else , if not, that relationship will more
Than likely not make it the long haul

[Zack-Bann]

Good relationship with parents is a major green flag


So I would love that about her


But if she ends up constantly comparing me to him or saying how he can do so many things better than me (like manual labor and such)
I would eventually want her to stop doing it


Comparison is the killer of joy

[Makeushiver]

Probably need more details. Many of them private not everyone will give you there opinions can make some admissions, some people may have lived though something similar. Broadly though the question you need to answer could depend on whether it was some for reasons that a strong, mature emotional frame if mind or was the choice the result of weaknesses - nit flaws, this isn't supposed to be a chance to explore with any self-recrimination. to beat yourself up. I had a typo there that read "beat yourself off. Your more than welcome to do that but, maybe that's a different conversation.

Was your Mom pushing you toward that solution? I'd think that would be an incorrect idea.

If she physically need your help- & that's not something she frequently asks-that seems cool. Is she claims that she asked you plenty in advance.

So after, all that keyboarding I probably haven't answered your question. If you want to get into it anymore why don't you dm if you like and tell me some specifics. Or roll your eyes $ think OMG this rambling maniac sounds like he's been doing meth, irish whisky & god knows what else, probably insane & off his meds.

[Anonymous]

lol love the answers. Had it been the other way around w men choosing their mother over the girl. He would have been labeled a mama’s boy. But in answer to your question. I wouldn’t make her choose. She shouldn’t have to. Now if her father was just a straight up piece or garbage, abusive, or a number of other really bad things, it would be different.

[itsannalee]

If you a guy ask you to choose between your dan and him, it’s clearly he is red flag 🚩
A good man wouldn’t ask those things, because parents and partner are in the different place.

[itsannalee]

#your dad

[Kelly6]

@mrshooiser guys who will say no to this are red flags

[Anonymous]

As long as it's OK with her that i choose other women over her. Like her mom, her sister or her best friend.😆

[Anonymous]

In general no, unless she looks like the girl in your picture then I will reconsider it maybe 😁

[jahaims]

It goes kids>spouse>parents

[WonderingManII]

Yuck.