Ok listen I just got out of a 8 years relationship a few months ago I want to know how exactly do I find someone in the dating world?

[Anonymous]

I want to one know how to find someone in general and two find someone preferably more dom in bed ( aka kink) I never had to date before because my relationship was with a man I was friends with several years first. Turns out cheating piece of shit. But now I honestly don't know how to do anything in the dating world especially since I'm not religious I don't drink smoke or use weed

[ohsheeT]

Not religious. Don't drink. Don't smoke you're perfect

Go to clubs. Go to malls do you have good friends that have friends where do you live. If you look on line most city's have a singles all get on line go yo chat sights. But not dating apps not unless your just horny. But even that sucks. Because 8 out of ten guys are only in it for themselves. So there are two minute type of perso that sucks.

And as for kink like I said 7 to 8 out of 10 guys are selfish so you can fix that part though all you have to do is... or wait a min this will only work if you have a good lover that can last...

Any way let me tell you dont worry want you know or don't know.

Your starting every thing all over any way. If you meet a guy look into his eyes listen to his words very carefully because if he's lying to you he will tell you the truth in the same breath

But be a little bit bold be your age now not the age that you were way back when if you want something to say I want this or you looking for this or that don't be afraid to be embarrassed that she's part of life. Take it on. If you want to be tame then be tame. If you want do be free be free you can be a good girl and add a little bit of slut in there. It's not gonna hurt anything. You can still be the girl next door that just has a side that likes to be pleased. That's what most guys are looking for

[Anonymous]

8 years. It took you to discover he was a cheater.🤦‍♂️

Yeah, you should just probably stay single. I don't think it gets better for you from hero on out unless you're just happening to be going through a "slut phase" in the wake of this. Because I think it could work for you then.

[Asker]

I knew Long before that I was just in a shit situation and couldn't leave so I just endured for 8 years to get my freedom I knew in the first year what he was.

[Opinion Owner]

Why did you endure it?

[Asker]

I didn't have a choice it was him or a far worse fate and I promise it hurts but not as much as the other option

[Anonymous]

My advice, take a year to find yourself if love doesn’t find you first in that time. Don’t go looking for it yet. I know that’s what you don’t want to hear but that was my biggest regret after getting out of a 7 year relationship with a guy I knew for 10. I got out of that relationship feeling 100% ready for a new one. I wasn’t grieving my ex, wasn’t sad about the breakup because it was overdue I felt ready. I dove right back into dating, and in hindsight I wish I took some time away from men to focus on me, redefine who I was a single person and to find myself again. You may not feel like you need that as well but it really makes a difference.

[slatyb]

Join activity groups that attract men -- outdoor activities like hiking and biking, and gaming groups.

[MasterKS]

Go out, be friendly, spend time and you will get it.