First and most importantly - think about what you want in a partner and don't be afraid to express it. Don't settle for someone to just spend time with if you want the real deal, marriage etc. Look for men who want the same things in life, don't try to change anyone, because it usually doesn't work and nobody is worth that effort.
Try dating apps that have people you'd be most interested in. There are some for different hobbies, religions, ethnicities, values etc
Even tinder is fine for just your local people, I went on many 1st dates. You want to go on as many as you can. Just because people use it as a hook up app doesn't mean you're required to do anything you don't want to. Moreover you want to steer away from people who think this way and have that expectation.
Talk to as many people as you can and eventually you'll meet someone you click with.
You can also just meet people via social clubs and hobbies but personally, I have too strict requirements (conservative and Christian) so for me it just didn't work in my area. Also, not everyone is able to do it because it's awkward while on dating apps, it's obvious what you're there for so it takes away some of that awkwardness. There are also singles nights out and speed dating if it could be your thing. Just keep in mind that meeting the right person takes some time and a bit of work but luckily since you're a girl the guys will do most of it for you (even if you want a really "modern" guy, chasing him will get you nowhere).
Dating apps can become overwhelming. You’ll have luck meeting a man if you dress nice and look vibrant, when going out in public.
Some places like: College, take up an activity, meet up groups, gym, bar, car shows, Dog park, Mall etc
You can initiate small talk with strangers that you meet in public and you all might hit it off.
9 times out of 10 when a woman says she can't find a guy it's because her standards are just too high.
If you're serious about wanting to find a guy you need to start by being honest with yourself. Do you REALLY want to find a guy? Not would like to. Do you really want to? And are you really making an effort?
The next rreasona woman can't find a guy is they are unwilling to suspend their pride to really put forth the effort necessary to achieve that goal. Have you done that?
How to be sosial is more the way to go. Find things you like doing or would like to do. Almost everything is possible to do in a sosial way. It's a way to meet people at the same time you doing something you like doing.
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Girl. I went on a dating app called meetme I wasn’t looking I was just there for attention and to flirt. This one guy caught my attention and I caught his and we met and hung out and now we are dating and soon moving in together and I’m pregnant with his child! Try meetme. I mean just don’t look. Focus on yourself but let them come to you girl! I was a lucky one.
I gave up on the dating world a long time ago it’s too over sexualized and modern.. no one is serious about love nowadays; I would only be wasting my time even trying
If that is you In your profile. I do not see hpw your single still. Maybe what someone here said to high of standards. Your gorgeous especially if thats you In your profile picture and like another person had said maybe try yourself. Like I am shy so i dont ask women out or Tell them compliments until I get theit phone numbers or social media to talk to them on there, maybe go to them. Not sure what other guys believe or if their shy but hey many people in the world are unique. So who knows sho he person might be like.
Pick better men, be feminine and stay out of clubs and any online apps.
Check out youth churches, specialized hobbie gyms like climbing, motorsports, horse riding etc.
Be a traditional woman. No sex until exclusive and dated for at least 3 months. Let the guys know upfront, that you want to get married in 12 months.
And hopefully you don't have a past.
Become gay. That's what I did. After being rejected by girls 1000 times I jus come to the realisation me and girls don't understand each other and dunno how to interact, but I understand guys more, even tho I'm not sexually attracted to them.. the fact I understand them makes it easier to have a relationship with one
What exactly do you mean by that, because it's not like there isn't enough around you are in your vicinity on a daily basis for the most part it's just the way I think you want it to happen is what you're really wondering or questioning unless you can specify for me a little differently or more specific
Don't look for a partner online because there are many scams
Stay off dating apps, and just start putting yourself out in society more often. Join a club, find a hobby, dress to impress, etc.
I have good success in find dates at church single activities, grocery stores, friends (not best idea), gyms. Friends get togethers
u Online dating going out depends tho if u are also asking people out or quiting to be asked out
Change your preferences, change your body and way of expression,
Dating apps don't work, you need to get out more
Can't be hard for a woman to find dates on a dating app.
try an actual dating site. not an app. plenty of fish helps.
Try staying off dating apps and meet people in real life.
Church, restaurants, Schools and colleges.
If you're in Ontario, CA and can enjoy sucking a big cock maybe I can give you a jump start.
u Go to church or try Christian Mingles
Same sis
At least you werent single for 30 years.
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