Im scared that ill stay forever alone and never find girlfriend, anyone help me (read down bellow my situation :/ )?

[Anonymous]

im 17years old and im scared that ill end up alone. I mean its not too late for me. But i think i will never find my soul mate or even date. Lets be clear now im really attractive person ( i hope xD) , mostly people rate me 9/10 10/10 and im really aesthetic ( bodybuilding). But since i moved to totally another country and im not great with language im scared to approach girls. And im new here so i dont know who is with who , does she have boyfriend or is she bitch etc... Im getting looks all the time , like where im mostly girls will stare at me. I think ill stay single probably forever, for sure i won't find girl till 20yo or even more, then after 20yo ill for sure be alone 100%. I dont want to use that dating apps and will never, also im from Europe (not much ppls use that apps anyway). Everyone always tell me ill find girlfriend one day but i dont think so. Im too scared to approach cuz of my language and also im shy with girl i like. This didn't bother me long time and in last time (months) im obsessed with that. I have feeling ill stay virgin forever and ill be forever alone. Anyone tell me how to get laid, i know people will tell me now OH YOU MUST APPROACH FFS STUPID QUESTION. Lol its not easy, I DONT UNDERSTAND LANGUAGE PERFECTLY to be clear and mostly people speak diffrent here and its hard to understand. So APPROACHING -100points, even if im scared and shy i could go but since language its like going to hit the dog with leg and expecting him to do nothing, its same chance that girl won't reject me. Im just way too scared. I had girlfriend before where i lived but now im just usless shit. Im nice guy, train a lot, not most beautiful but not ugly and still single, how can all this retards who only use drugs have girlfriend? fml. Anyone recommend me what should i do more? I dont have a lot friends here and when i recommend some friend to go in night club they reject mostly. Friends always say oh girls stare at u and crazy about u, ull find one day but i think not :(

[Anonymous]

as an older forever alone, i think you shouldn't be scared of being a forever alone. but, rather, make the most of it, while you are at it.

while you are single, you have more free time, which you can spend getting new hobbies, like, say, learning new languages (with duolingo app/website you can learn the basics for free), hiking, reading books (historical novels and history books can be quite fun), etc.

now, of course, the forever alone thingy will bite at times. however sooner or later one gets used to it. its most certainly unpleasant, but it doesn't have to be crippling.

i dont know all forever alones, so i might be wrong, but anyway. i think most forever alones spend too much time wallowing in self hatred, and dont try to learn or do new stuff. thats why i think most of them are so miserable. not because of being forever alone by itself, but by using being forever alone to justify getting stuck.

[MarkRet]

You're only 17. You have plenty of time to figure things out. You say you are having a problem with language? Focus on learning the language you need to focus on, not for getting girls, but just for improving your situation overall. When you master another language, it will give you a feeling of accomplishment and improve your self-confidence, which then makes it easier to talk to girls. By the way, I didn't even HAVE a girlfriend until I was about 25.

[Asker]

I understand languages almost perfectly but its not same while ur talking w someone who u like, u become nervous.

[abis13]

You are only 17... chill out dude. I'm still single and I have friends who are +35 and still single. I also have friends who met their sig fig at 14 and others who married at 18. Your time will come. You just need to relax. Everything will happen in its own time. Focus on you and your goals in life and things will turn out great :)

[Asker]

yea but im just way too scared, its eating me inside. Like okey ill tell honestly now my only problem is pimple and nothing more, im more then happy with my body (i mean few things what i dont like but can't be changed) and im really attractive, like really good looking guy in body (shoulders hands chest everything even people think im using steroids and fat burner lul) and im really attractive in face too. Most guys like me had million girls and lost virginity in early age and there is me 17yo who didn't even saw pussy in real life rofl. I just want girl to cuddle with , go out with her, love her and have someone who actually love me and that i can spend whole life to be with her :( and im unlucky. Also there are my friends who want pussy only , and use girls for sex and they get them lol and even good girls , they just use them. Thats not right but however things have to be this way probably , god gived me everything expect girlfriend well played...

[abis13]

I hope you know that sex isn't everything. and if your friends are having sex constantly, they will probably catch an STD or get a girl pregnant. And just saying no 17 year old or however old you really are has had sex with "a million girls".

[Asker]

i didn't meant to say like that but that type of dudes mostly date every girl and use them and im not like that but im just unlucky, girls are staring in me all the time and even from school girls touch me and laught to everything i say even if its not funny and still i have no idea how ill stay single forever.

[Asker]

my life is sad

[jmarine81]

Most girls prefer a man with confidence.

[Asker]

i know that, but u see i dont have it so i can rest in peace buddy

[Snakeyes7]

Why did you move? Can you go back?