as an older forever alone, i think you shouldn't be scared of being a forever alone. but, rather, make the most of it, while you are at it.
while you are single, you have more free time, which you can spend getting new hobbies, like, say, learning new languages (with duolingo app/website you can learn the basics for free), hiking, reading books (historical novels and history books can be quite fun), etc.
now, of course, the forever alone thingy will bite at times. however sooner or later one gets used to it. its most certainly unpleasant, but it doesn't have to be crippling.
i dont know all forever alones, so i might be wrong, but anyway. i think most forever alones spend too much time wallowing in self hatred, and dont try to learn or do new stuff. thats why i think most of them are so miserable. not because of being forever alone by itself, but by using being forever alone to justify getting stuck.
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You're only 17. You have plenty of time to figure things out. You say you are having a problem with language? Focus on learning the language you need to focus on, not for getting girls, but just for improving your situation overall. When you master another language, it will give you a feeling of accomplishment and improve your self-confidence, which then makes it easier to talk to girls. By the way, I didn't even HAVE a girlfriend until I was about 25.
You are only 17... chill out dude. I'm still single and I have friends who are +35 and still single. I also have friends who met their sig fig at 14 and others who married at 18. Your time will come. You just need to relax. Everything will happen in its own time. Focus on you and your goals in life and things will turn out great :)
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