What’s the one petty thing you secretly judge people for?

[Veronika_p]

Okay, let's be honest for a second.. we all have that one thing we quietly judge people for, even if we never say it out loud. 😅

I'm not talking about serious things. I mean those everyday habits or behaviors that instantly make you think, "Hmm... that tells me something about this person."

For me, it's when someone is rude to a waiter, cashier, cleaner, or any customer service worker. It doesn't matter how nice they are to everyone else... if they treat people they think are "below them" badly, I immediately see them differently.

I also can't help judging people who constantly talk over others and never let anyone finish a sentence. 😭

what's that one thing you secretly judge people for?

[There_Is_Rehab]

People who ignore the subconscious (virtually everyone).

If we are drama queens in relationships then it is because our parents fought like cats and dogs. I finally figured out that I must 1) Stop mid compulsion that drives me to try proving how I'm better or more humble than the peer. 2) Feel the pain of the compulsion slamming against me. 3) Grieve that event which has set the compulsion into motion, which is usually seeing parents fighting and me being silenced from reacting to it in any way (which internalized the theater into my subconscious).

I judge but I do not adjudicate. I form an understanding, "Veronika_p judges people with sick behavior but does not analyze what caused them to suffer this sickness". But I do not adjudicate you for it (I don't label you as a bad person.) ㅤ

[ohsheeT]

I mean if I'm being honest I'm pretty sure that I judge everybody not out loud by judge internally

And it's not that I actually judge I just read the person and especially if it's something that they said then I try to understand the manipulation behind it because we have to face it every word in the dictionary is some sort of manipulation

So I feel words as I'm looking into somebody's eyes when they say something because there's always some sort of hidden meaning behind what is said I mean even if you're not trying to do it it happens so

I might not judge the words that they use I do kind of judge the motive behind it

I don't like when people talk about other people because it is as if they're trying to make themselves look better

So when a friend might say oh don't go around that person they are bad

they did this and they did that and I have to look at them and say well okay thank you but I'll figure that out on my own

The weather's Petty or or premeditated is still there and there's something meaningful behind it and then at the same time they're just words and I have to understand that I have probably done the same thing too somehow somewhere without realizing it so this is a hard question for me and she's hard because I read people so fast and when you read somebody there's also an energy or an emotion it tells you everything else about whatever it is that's going on

It's kind of like loving somebody but not liking them you know you have your reasons for it and it's not a bad thing and it could be Petty but it means something to each and every one of us really

So I try not to judge people And if I do I usually Is that it all go Not unless there's something inside of me telling me warning warning warning And then I probably just don't even hang out with that person Even put myself in the position to be around them

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s all about LEG WIGGLERS or people that shake their legs while sitting.

The next time you go to a restaurant or a place where people are sitting take a look around & you will be surprised how many people wiggle or shake their legs.

It’s a freak show out there! I was at a restaurant sitting in a booth & two jokers behind me started wiggling their legs, it was annoying, I thought there was an earthquake & I moved to another table.

At the grocery store I secretly judge the people bagging your groceries especially the retarded baggers. Who the fuck throws cans on soup on top of eggs or double bags blueberries & puts a gallon of milk in a single bag? Seriously?

[bear34]

Yes, I’ll be frank: I judge people who defend what is wrong and refuse to accept clearly evident facts, as well as truly bigoted types.

[Veronika_p]

Same here

[bear34]

It's nice to agree with you.

[TrueConfection]

I don’t think being rude is a petty thing at all and I’ll run the other way if someone is rude for sport.

My petty judging is in how they speak. Do they make eye contact? Are they sincere? Do they swear or use slang? Do they use double negatives?

[HawkPerception]

I dunno if I'd consider it petty, but when people are obese, it does bother me and I think "How do you let yourself become that fat? Do you not care about your body? If you had a partner would you care if your partner found you attractive or not?"

I just don't think there's ever an excuse to be fat and it says a lot about a person.

I'm sure there are plenty of other things, but that's the first thing that comes to mind

[choco-latte]

People who eat Brazilian pizzas

[In_Trance]

Not being able to walk in a striaght line
Have you noticed people at big gatherings like sporting events or shopping malls?
They're all over the place.

[Veronika_p]

😲 i thought i was the only one who noticed this detail

[Alex-Snow]

You make some excellent points. I agree with all of them!

[Veronika_p]

Thank you

[HellOnHeels0]

Someone puts ketchup on steak. Should be put out to pasture.

[Veronika_p]

Lol 😆😆

[HellOnHeels0]

In broad day light.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

@HellOnHeels0 eww

[Sunshinelips]

The way they talk or how they dress. (I’m thinking typically of UK Chavs)

[DryGermanGuy]

Not having a grasp of even your native language.

[Bricealan]

@Veronika_p You took the words right out of my mouth!!! "someone is rude to a waiter, cashier, cleaner, or any customer service worker". I believe they suck, from the word go.

[OneViewpoint]

Oh I'm constantly evaluating and judging people for all sorts of things. It helps me weed out the people I don't want to waste my time with.

[MissSunshine2]

Bad grammar and spelling and coarse language.

[MrChinaski]

I agree with your comment about wait staff. You can judge a person by how they treat those that don't have power.

[Staximus]

There’s nothing petty about the way people treat others. The only thing I can think of is taste in music and clothes

[Veronika_p]

How you treat others tells a lot about yourself

[AviatorTom]

Adults wearing shows with Velcro ties... why?

[Anonymous]

Paranoid people that think I am judging when I am minding my own business and want to start an argument.

[_Jenny_]

@Veronika_p I don’t judge people, they know who they are

[AgentG111]

Just one thing? Heck I watch and view people everywhere I go. I watch and see how they act and interact and their mannerisms.

[RareBreedOfMan]

When people seem judgmental this is why I secretly judge them.

[DragonDan444]

How they carry themselves can say a lot some people are socially awkward but some people you can just tell are off and Jo to something weird

[Agape93]

Putting peanuts in soda. Wtf why

[Veronika_p]

Lol 🙄

[Static_In_The_Attic]

WTF? Peanuts in soda? Must be those tide pod eating mother fuckers.

[Just_Ken]

How single mothers treat their exes.

[Pretendingtobesweet]

The way they walk

[kinks1951]

judging people, and some political views

[exitseven]

When they display poor hygeine.

[mat566]

If they lie

[Veronika_p]

That's a No-No

[mat566]

Yes. Or if they pretend to be really good friends with someone but talk shit about that person behind their back.

I remove these type of people from my life asap

[msc545]

Bad grammar or a bad vocabulary, or both.

[Chelsea86]

For not using good hygiene.