Do you guys (or girls) have any advice for me?

[Orange26]

I’ll call them Emma and rose ( not real names obviously).

I met both of them over the summer and like both of them in a romantic relationship way not js as friends. I was talking to Emma first but she seemed distant and un interested so I started talking to rose who I thought was out of my league and wouldn’t want to talk to me but me and rose have been talking and things have been going really well but I can’t stop thinking of Emma and I feel like every time I think of someone it’s Emma and not rose.

honestly I don’t want to feel like this but it’s hard not to what do u guys suggest I do and do u have advice for me?

I would really like to be with Emma but also I like rose and if Emma isn’t interested I risk not being able to be with rose.

[bobalife]

I think you should stop pursuing Rose… because you want Emma. If you get with Rose just because Emma don’t want you… it’s not fair for you and Rose.
Similar boat as you, but I’ll choose the 2nd guy not solely because the first guy isn’t clear and intentional with me. But second guy is truly who I want and need in life. I also appreciate and value what we have more. Sure you’ll still find the first person attractive.. but is it more because of the mystery, chase, and not having them? If you decide to go with Rose, is it truly because she’s all you want and appreciate? Or if you lose her, you’ll regret realizing she’s probably what you want and need? Things to reflect on if you want an authentic and long-term relationship.

[NoDecision]

No rules say you can't date more than one person at a time until you make your relationship exclusive. It is done all the time on dating sites. So go for it!

[ohsheeT]

Well it sounds like your luck day and they both made the choice for you

Because it not about you. it's about them and what they want because that's the only way your going to get what you want..


And that looks like neither one of them. So now your going g to have to wait until next summer

Now you have winter to reflect on it and figure out the lession you learnt from your experience

[Abbycado]

Well, sounds like @EmmaMary is not interested, nor would you expect her to be.

Honestly, go with the girl that’s showing you interest if you do (as you say) have interest in her.

[Orange26]

I just feel like I might miss out if I don’t try with “emma”. I feel like I might regret it because she’s showing me kinda mixed signals now. She seems like she likes me then she seem like she doesn’t.

[Abbycado]

What you are doing at this point is sorta leading two girls on. Make a choice and stick with it.

[Orange26]

Ya ur right, thanks for the advice

[Abbycado]

Good luck. Remember, if you don’t already factor this, it is so much more about emotion than superficial things.

I hope whatever decision you make works out and you are happy.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s a tough one. I guess focus on Rose since she likes you back, but not if you don’t like her that way.

[Nikki1989]

Why is a 24-year-old talking about leagues?

Stop playing games.

[x-anastasiaa-x]

Which one are you in love with?

[Orange26]

I feel like I like “Emma” more but if she has no interest in me I don’t want to talk to her incase it ruins what I have already with “rose”

[In_Trance]

Make a decision

[Orange26]

That’s what I’m trying to do but I don't know who to pick I feel like “Emma” is more like me personally wise then “rose” is but I know for a fact rose likes me