Is it okay if. my boyfriend looks at other women online even if he says he thinks of me in them or wearing what they are? I find it disrespectful?

[ibrlaa222]

[ohsheeT]

That is not only disrespectful
But it's also manipulation

So now you're learning more and more about him

Is that what you said when you got together with? Hi? Like you because you're you disrespectful and you manipulate me so that means you like to me and you make me feel like crap because you're looking at other girls.

Honestly I don't think that's what you said to yourself. You can look at this as it's all about him

After knowing what you know it's not about him anymore it's about you and what you're gonna do about it is the way you want to be treated

I know you're gonna have a difficult time, but you have to understand you have to love yourself more than anybody else in this world. The real person for you

[ohsheeT]

Before you can find the person for you

So, look who he is right now. When you do that.

Now you have to look at yourself.
If you say with him. Then , you're ok with what he does... and now he knows this. And he will start taking even more advantage of you.. But it means you only ltove your self that much. So the moral of the story is just think what you could have if you loved yourself more

Sorry I mess up your day by saying all the above .. but you need to be happy in life not heart ache

[Alex-Snow]

He needs to appreciate what he has. Does he watch a lot of porn also? How is your sex life with him? Message me if u want to chat about it

[Anonymous]

If you find something disrespectful and not ok then it’s not ok in your relationship. What other people think is irrelevant when it comes to your specific situation. You talk to him about it, be very transparent with how it makes you feel and that you will not accept it. If he isn’t willing to stop or if he lies about stopping then you break up and move on. The two of you set the rules for your relationship. And to answer your wuestion anyway, no I wouldn’t be ok with my boyfriend doing this either.

[DishLady]

If it makes you uncomfortable, you can talk to him about it, but also if it’s just magazines or some visual-only thing don’t be too harsh. Guys are VERY VERY visual in ways that women don’t necessarily understand.

[Nikki1989]

Some men never grow up, and most women find that out the hard way. There are good men out there, but they are a rare breed.

[Anonymous]

I think that’s kind of disrespectful but not as bad as if he checks them out in real life. But I don’t believe him when he says he sees you in them.

[LiamJHayden]

No, it is not okay precisely because you find it disrespectful. No other opinion matters here.

[Ironic_Method]

I mean... clearly it's not okay with you since you don't like it.

[In_Trance]

It's fine