Are you single by choice or is it bc no one wants to date you?

[Anonymous]

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8 mo

Bc I have many attractive good personality woman who go are close to 30 or are in early 30s and never been asked out or a man proposing to them

[ohsheeT]

Im single by choice I know what I want and I know I will get it.

But right now I'm searching for the answer to something that I believe in and it makes total since to me.

It actually a very, very beautiful thing and something so simple. But I want to know the truth first


It really.\n Doesn't even matter to a point.\n That to the other point, it does matter. Because in a relationship, it can be a part of it to make the relationship so much deeper than relationships are today.

And if im right about it it would change the way people have relationships and people would become one with there partner so much deeper. And I think when it come to m a king love or having sex with there partner it changes everything.

And I need these answers first

Because if I was to get into a relationship I wouldn't
Be able to find out what it is. I'm looking for what I'm trying to find. Because I need answers from other people in order to do this and in a relationship. I wouldn't be able to do that. It's not having sex or anything else. But it is the open type of conversation did I would have to stop?
And then I would not get the answers to all to all of this

But I am definitely ready for a relationship that's for sure. But if I can't be one hundred percent into it and I don't want to do it yet

[Fireguy17]

I was single for a long time by choice after my first marriage ended when i found her in bed with the landlord.
Then I treated that as my second childhood and went out and had fun.
I still had my looks, a strong 5ish to a 6, a good job, all of the toys I wanted, the freedom to come and go as I pleased, traveled all over on my motorcycles, all without having to worry about being with someone else.
It was easy to get laid back then, and life was good.
So fast forward about 40ish year when I grew up, kind of sort of, and got married once again, to the right person, who is also independent, and enjoys things without me tagging along, same as me, and we also do a lot together.

[WhitneySnow]

The situation you describe seems unlikely to me. I was in high school not long ago, and almost all of my friends had been asked out at least once or twice (though not all of them were interested in dating).

[DishLady]

Choice. It’s hard for me to find a fellow with the same values, which is something I’ll hold out for. I’d rather stay single than to end up with a guy who has no moral compass.

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s a bit of both for everyone, usually. I’m not interested in the women who are interested in me, and vice versa.

[LØRDOFÐΞBUG-RA]

My own choice up until now whenever I regularly joined an environment where there were girls, like a course, school, library or workplace there was always one or more who showed interest in me, either directly or indirectly. But I rejected the vast majority of them.

[HighValue]

Plenty of women have wanted me, but they aren't good enough for me to want them. Most have too bad of morals and made bad life decisions that I don't agree with. I can't be with someone that isn't morally compatible.

[Zack-Bann]

Used to be because of circumstances but then I fixed that
And after many relationships and situationships now I take it slow by choice


Jumping too fast always lead me to headaches

[Nikki1989]

Apart from a few weeks here and there, the last time I had no one, I was 12 years old.

So I have very little idea what being single is like.

[Speaking_Frankly]

By choice because I choose not to date those who have shown an interest in me but have complete deal breakers.

[Alex-Snow]

I'm in college right now nd do not want a committed relationship. I have a casual friends with benefits which is fun. Message me if you want to talk bout single vs attached or anything else.

[HollyK21]

Be careful offering minors to message with you privately.

[Anonymous]

I could easily find a women to date, but I find it hard to put in effort in if I don't feel a certain way about her.

[Paul1366]

Definitely because no one wants to date me 😅

[Asker]

Awee sorry

[MasterKS]

By choice, just enjoy life and do casual sex, no need of attachments.

[Anonymous]

Choice.