What is the best advice for a guy who has no succes with girls?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

• Stop watching porn.

• Stop playing video games.

• Stop being weird and creepy.

• Grow some confidence and self-esteem (therapist may be needed).

• Get a makeover. Go and get your hair done or shave it off if it’s balding, get contacts or more stylish glasses if you wear glasses, shave unless you have an awesome beard you look good in, start working out and eating right to get into shape, get a new style (you can ask the person working in the clothes store to help you or hire a personal stylist).

• Make sure you have a job and at least one hobby that’s not weird.

• Live alone.

• Start seeing women as people, just like yourself and men in general. Have realistic expectations on women’s looks, behavior, personality.

• Start talking to people, including women, without any intention of trying to get with a woman. Just for the sake of making conversation, getting to know people and most importantly to practice social interactions or get yourself more confident around people/women in general.

• Compliment women, without any expectation of it leading anywhere. Even just compliment the elderly lady at the grocery store on her jacket. Tell the woman in line ar McDonald’s her nails are cool. Nothing about her body. It’s to practice these things, not to creep women out with desperate compliments on their bodies or looks because you want a chance with her.

• Make friends if you don’t have any, make new friends if you do.

• Go out and do things, live your life and be open to talking to people. Eventually you should find someone.

[Spencer10]

Thanks for saving me time. This answer is excellent.

[Genie23]

This one deserves MHO

[Vegasrunner]

@anyomous This is great info. Simply adjust
- Stop being weird and creepy Thats subjective a man can't control how a random women feels
- Therapy is a female dominated feel, all they are going to do is charge you to tell you to put women on a pedestal.
- You're better off seeing woman as children as their behavior more closely resembles that.
- The start talking to people for conversations is brilliant

[Abbycado]

That is way too general to answer since I don't know you or why you don't have success for girls. There is always a reason.

[aaron13547]

Ask yourself why you think this way and change that. Only you can fix yourself. People can give you all the the tools in the world but if your afraid to use them, or don't understand how they're not tools they are just in the way... break apart your mind and get to the bottom of why you feel and think the thing you do. You have to care about yourself enough to want to be better. When you want to be better people see that and want to be like you. Become someone you like and it will cause people to like you.

[ohsheeT]

Try a different way reinvent yourself.

Look you really do have everything in side you that it takes to get date. But if you don't love yourself or even like yourself or if you think you're not good enough, that's written all over your fish. Forget about all that c***, be happy b. E outgoing don't look like you're only doing it because you want a date. Look at it because you like having fun with friends and become a friend first.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & if you want to meet people you have to get out & greet people. As for confidence it’s a wonderful thing if you have it & if you don’t you have to work on finding it. Get off your phone, get off your ass, & start working on yourself. Get a clean haircut, start working out if you don’t already & start talking to people face to face or at least say hello. If you have a dog take the dog for a walk in a park & I guarantee people will start talking to you.

[HighValue]

Need more information to give valid and useful advice.

Race? Height? Fitness/appearance? Income? Debt?

[Anonymous]

If I knew that, I would be successful with girls.

[MannMitAntworten]

Get a puppy.

[Jmmmfi4]

Wish I knew