Why are so many opposed to being a guys first girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Are women embarrassed to be a guys first girlfriend? Are they scared they're going to be made fun of because they're not dating the guy that every girl wants?

[Twalli]

I'm not sure my girlfriend knew she was my first when I asked her out. She seemed surprised that I hadn't been in a relationship before, so she definitely wanted to date me. I think it's because they feel like they have to be the adult in the relationship. He doesn't know how the whole relationship thing works, so she has to teach him.

[Pohjolan]

Mimetic desire is stronger in women than men. Its also why fashion works differently for different genders.

[cora1]

Well technically no one else knows she’s his first so it wouldn’t even matter. Not many people know our private information, so it would just be like any other relationship.

[Anonymous]

I never heard of that.

[Abbycado]

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