Why guys don’t want a girlfriend or refuse make first move?

[Sugar100]

I thought a guy had to talk first to a girl but latley all boys I see want me talk first. They simply show interest by appearing near you on purpsoe but u need talk then they reciprocate. Is this a new trend or something?
the only guy that had talked to me first are the super most sociable guys that are way older like 40-60.

I’m 27 and never had a boyfriend. My life is just work sleep work sleep. I don’t want be 30 living with parents. People suppsivly say I’m pretty but no guy wants ride in my car daily , live with me, meet family, nothing. Can’t even get a kiss or hookip 2 years now I don't know what’s going on. Maybe it’s cuz I’m older so most people are already in relationship with babies.

I’m shy but my whole life I approach men first and latley the 2 boys I approached showed hints they like me but they don’t progress the relationship or it’s too too slow.
daily boys stare at me but I’m depresed as my efforts go to waste I don’t see any progress hapening and I’m alone. 😓

do I need meet 1 million more boys to find a boyfriend? 😓 I’ve met too many boys are they all gay or something?

[glennos89]

This problem is created by those woman who can't turn down men who approach them in a normal behaved manor. Getting called a creep, pervert, loser when a woman isn't attracted to you isn't really making the whole approaching experience safer for men. This problem is created by the woman with nasty attitudes so unless woman are changing their behaviour this problem will only get worse

[Shiprex]

Maybe you are giving off desperation signals that guys will shy away from and not want to jump into something so serious. Older guys may be more suitable as they are probably sure of what they want and that's usually to settled down and start a household and maybe family.

There's also a lot of noise about how shitty relationships are especially for guys because they are given all these expectations to GIVE to women and there's not a lot of noise in response to say what they get in response to that. SO guys are staying single and not committing

[dudeinohio]

Guys are afraid of being accused of being a creep or accused of sexual assault later on.

The New Order of Liberal squid mindsets has taught males from an early age to leave women/girls alone.

[WonderingManII]

I'm sorry you are having a hard time with this. You are not alone.

[Pterodon]

Interesting. You keep calling them boys. You’re 28. Stop going after boys and go after men

[Sugar100]

I plan go to church as my family keep telling me only church men want a girlfriend and marriage. It seems anywhere else boys just talk to u but don’t call u their girlfriend or ask to be their girlfriend and I need a relationship and meet family. So I will go to church

[Sugar100]

I even was on Instagram and saw a guy with a girlfriend and baby and he was holding a church Bible. Only church men want gfs

[Sazidhassan]

I wish I found single girl... One rejected me for continues 7 months after being girlfriend all request of intimacy to me...

[wkhan_87]

I think it's depends on the person

[Anonymous]

MeToo statutes